P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm o n\u011bkter\u00fdch rizic\u00edch, kter\u00e9 tzv. dekonstruk\u010dn\u00ed proces m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161et a uv\u00e1d\u011bt do zmatku nebo do toho n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem „h\u00e1zet vidle“. St\u00e1le plat\u00ed ono p\u0159\u00edslove\u010dn\u00e9, nen\u00ed tak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 opustit toxick\u00e9 n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed, opravdov\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce a obt\u00ed\u017e je dostat ty v\u011bci ze sebe.<\/p>\n
Riziko nap\u0159\u00edklad nast\u00e1v\u00e1<\/p>\n
1. Kdy\u017e ud\u011bl\u00e1me z odporu k n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed sv\u016fj nov\u00fd smysl \u017eivota.
\nSamoz\u0159ejm\u011b pocity zrady, hn\u011bvu a z\u00e1\u0161ti jsou p\u0159irozenou, dokonce nezbytnou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed procesu. Vymezen\u00ed v\u016f\u010di toxick\u00fdm syst\u00e9m\u016fm bude v\u017edy nutn\u00e9. Ale neut\u00e1bo\u0159me se v t\u00e1bo\u0159e nen\u00e1visti, nevytvo\u0159me dal\u0161\u00edho nep\u0159\u00edtele, proti kter\u00e9mu je t\u0159eba bojovat. Zpracujme sv\u00e9 r\u00e1ny a po\u0161kozen\u00ed a pokra\u010dujme cestou vp\u0159ed.<\/p>\n
2. Kdy\u017e si po\u0159\u00edd\u00edme novou sestavu guru\u016f.
\nMnoho lid\u00ed opou\u0161t\u00ed c\u00edrkve pr\u00e1v\u011b pro porozum\u011bn\u00ed \u0161kodlivosti a toxicit\u011b v\u016fdc\u016f, osobnost\u00ed a guru, kter\u00e9 kdysi n\u00e1sledovali, ov\u0161em \u010dasto jen, aby je nahradili zcela nov\u00fdmi, l\u00e9pe osv\u00edcen\u00fdmi, charizmati\u010dt\u011bj\u0161\u00edmi apod. Nen\u00ed nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho na u\u010den\u00ed se a r\u016fstu od ostatn\u00edch, kte\u0159\u00ed rezonuj\u00ed s tebou a tvou cestou. Nikdy to ale nen\u00ed n\u00e1hrada za p\u011bstov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edch vrozen\u00fdch duchovn\u00edch n\u00e1stroj\u016f a zdroj\u016f. Nestav\u011bjme osv\u00edcen\u00e9 u\u010ditele na piedestaly a nenechejme je, aby za n\u00e1s p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli.<\/p>\n
3. Kdy\u017e o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1me, \u017ee n\u00e1s na\u0161i b\u00fdval\u00ed p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 neopust\u00ed nebo n\u00e1s alespo\u0148 pochop\u00ed.
\nZtrat\u00ed\u0161 p\u0159\u00e1tele. Okruh b\u00fdval\u00fdch p\u0159\u00e1tel byl zalo\u017een na syst\u00e9mu sd\u00edlen\u00e9 v\u00edry. Ten byl z\u00e1kladem bezpe\u010d\u00ed, identity, \u00fa\u010delu a existen\u010dn\u00edho pohodl\u00ed. Jakmile opou\u0161t\u00edme tento syst\u00e9m v\u00edry, je nere\u00e1ln\u00e9 o\u010dek\u00e1vat, \u017ee tyto vztahy budou pokra\u010dovat nebo z\u016fstanou stejn\u00e9. Jasn\u011b, bylo by skv\u011bl\u00e9, kdybychom se v\u0161ichni mohli navz\u00e1jem akceptovat takov\u00ed, jac\u00ed jsme. Proces dekonstrukce ot\u0159ese va\u0161\u00edm rela\u010dn\u00edm a spole\u010densk\u00fdm sv\u011btem. Najdete si nov\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1tele. Nest\u00e1v\u00e1 se to v\u0161echno najednou. Nepl\u00fdtvejme svou energii na snahu, aby b\u00fdval\u00e1 p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed fungovala, pokud nefunguj\u00ed. Nem\u016f\u017eeme „donutit“ lidi pochopit. M\u00edsto toho by mohlo b\u00fdt produktivn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed vytv\u00e1\u0159et nov\u00e9 kontakty.<\/p>\n
4. Kdy\u017e bereme dekonstrukci jako dal\u0161\u00ed n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed
\n\u201eDekonstrukce\u201c je slovo, o kter\u00e9m jsme se rozhodli, \u017ee m\u016f\u017ee znamenat proces zkoum\u00e1n\u00ed n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 tradice a odlou\u010den\u00ed se od toxick\u00fdch n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdch p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, praktik nebo komunit. \u010clov\u011bk m\u016f\u017ee ud\u011blat n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed z dekonstrukce t\u00edm, \u017ee nazna\u010duje, \u017ee existuje soubor spr\u00e1vn\u00fdch krok\u016f, etap nebo pokyn\u016f, kter\u00fdmi by se m\u011bli dal\u0161\u00ed \u0159\u00eddit. Nebo \u017ee je tu skupina odborn\u00edk\u016f a kou\u010d\u016f na dekonstrukci kterou mus\u00edme n\u00e1sledovat. Ano, samoz\u0159ejm\u011b je mnoho co se u\u010dit z moudrosti a zku\u0161enost\u00ed ostatn\u00edch, kte\u0159\u00ed t\u00edmto procesem pro\u0161li nebo o n\u011bm maj\u00ed znalosti. Proces dekonstrukce je ale jin\u00fd a jedine\u010dn\u00fd pro ka\u017ed\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka. Neexistuje \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd \u201espr\u00e1vn\u00fd\u201c program pro v\u0161echny. Nejlep\u0161\u00ed rada, ohledn\u011b cesty dekonstrukce, je zam\u011b\u0159it se na obnoven\u00ed nov\u00e9ho druhu vztahu k sob\u011b v oblastech, jako je sebep\u0159ijet\u00ed, sebed\u016fv\u011bra, p\u00e9\u010de o sebe, sebepozn\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a sebe\u00facta.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
P\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edm o n\u011bkter\u00fdch rizic\u00edch, kter\u00e9 tzv. dekonstruk\u010dn\u00ed proces m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161et a uv\u00e1d\u011bt do zmatku nebo do toho n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem „h\u00e1zet vidle“. St\u00e1le plat\u00ed ono p\u0159\u00edslove\u010dn\u00e9, nen\u00ed tak t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 opustit toxick\u00e9 n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed, opravdov\u00e1 pr\u00e1ce a obt\u00ed\u017e je dostat ty v\u011bci ze sebe. Riziko nap\u0159\u00edklad nast\u00e1v\u00e1 1. Kdy\u017e ud\u011bl\u00e1me z odporu k […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5],"tags":[63],"class_list":["post-10054","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","tag-robert-krejci"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10054","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10054"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10054\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10057,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10054\/revisions\/10057"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10054"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10054"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10054"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}