{"id":10168,"date":"2024-03-09T14:45:23","date_gmt":"2024-03-09T13:45:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=10168"},"modified":"2024-03-09T14:52:32","modified_gmt":"2024-03-09T13:52:32","slug":"nikdy-nesmite-rict-ne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=10168","title":{"rendered":"Nikdy nesm\u00edte \u0159\u00edct ne (?)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tato teologie je v c\u00edrkvi velmi roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e1. Setk\u00e1me se s t\u00edm i v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kde si mu\u017ei prost\u011b mysl\u00ed, \u017ee maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo br\u00e1t si \u017eensk\u00e9 t\u011blo. N\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed a kultura \u010distoty tuto patriarch\u00e1ln\u00ed, mu\u017eskou dominantn\u00ed my\u0161lenku posouvaj\u00ed na zcela novou \u00farove\u0148 t\u00edm, \u017ee zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed P\u00edsmo, teologii a duchovn\u00ed autoritu k tomu, aby mu\u017ei vl\u00e1dli \u017een\u00e1m, zastra\u0161ovali je a perzekuovali.<\/p>\n

Tohoto mu\u017ee z obr\u00e1zku te\u010f \u010dek\u00e1 d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 lekce. Tato \u017eena m\u00e1 autonomii nad sv\u00fdm t\u011blem, v\u00ed to a nevzd\u00e1 se j\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Budu k v\u00e1m up\u0159\u00edmn\u00fd. Vyrostl jsem s teologi\u00ed, \u017ee na\u0161e t\u011bla nejsou na\u0161e vlastn\u00ed. Ale jde o to, \u017ee jsem nikdy nevid\u011bl… nikdy… za cel\u00e1 ta desetilet\u00ed v c\u00edrkvi i ve slu\u017eb\u011b… nikdy jsem nevid\u011bl, \u017ee by se toto biblick\u00e9 m\u00edsto pou\u017e\u00edvalo proti mu\u017e\u016fm. V\u017edycky se pou\u017e\u00edvalo proti \u017een\u00e1m ve prosp\u011bch mu\u017e\u016f. V podstat\u011b se to pou\u017e\u00edvalo a pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1 k n\u00e1tlaku, a dokonce k nucen\u00ed \u017een k sexu, i kdy\u017e necht\u011bly. A v\u0161ichni v\u00edme, co je sex bez souhlasu.<\/p>\n

Tuto lekci jsem dostal velmi brzy i v m\u00e9m man\u017eelstv\u00ed. Ale lekce nespo\u010d\u00edvala v tom, \u017ee bych musel s nelibost\u00ed \u010dekat, a\u017e to Lisa (man\u017eelka) bude cht\u00edt. Je to hlub\u0161\u00ed a d\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/p>\n

Nau\u010dil jsem se, \u017ee existuj\u00ed souvislosti, na kter\u00fdch mus\u00edme oba zapracovat. Kontext jako d\u016fv\u011bra, zranitelnost, zdrav\u00ed, n\u00e1lada, komunikace, spojen\u00ed, intimita, flirtov\u00e1n\u00ed a dvo\u0159en\u00ed, pozn\u00e1n\u00ed, praxe, experimentov\u00e1n\u00ed, u\u010den\u00ed, objevov\u00e1n\u00ed. To v\u0161echno a je\u0161t\u011b v\u00edc!<\/p>\n

Jist\u011b, byla tam spousta toho, \u010demu jsme \u0159\u00edkali rychlovky. Ale i ty se odehr\u00e1valy na pozad\u00ed l\u00e1sky a v\u0161ech souvislost\u00ed, kter\u00e9 jsem zm\u00ednil v\u00fd\u0161e.<\/p>\n

Nikdy ne\u0161lo o po\u017eadavek. Nikdy o n\u00e1rokov\u00e1n\u00ed. Nikdy o v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017eky.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1hla n\u00e1s k sob\u011b l\u00e1ska a touha a to vy\u017eaduje pr\u00e1ci. A m\u016fj post\u0159eh? P\u0159\u00edli\u0161 mnoho mu\u017e\u016f nen\u00ed ochotno tuto pr\u00e1ci vykonat. Ale jako v\u011bt\u0161ina dobr\u00e9 pr\u00e1ce i toto p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161\u00ed dobr\u00e9 ovoce a ovoce, kter\u00e9 vydr\u017e\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Tato teologie je v c\u00edrkvi velmi roz\u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00e1. Setk\u00e1me se s t\u00edm i v prost\u0159ed\u00ed, kde si mu\u017ei prost\u011b mysl\u00ed, \u017ee maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo br\u00e1t si \u017eensk\u00e9 t\u011blo. N\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed a kultura \u010distoty tuto patriarch\u00e1ln\u00ed, mu\u017eskou dominantn\u00ed my\u0161lenku posouvaj\u00ed na zcela novou \u00farove\u0148 t\u00edm, \u017ee zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed P\u00edsmo, teologii a duchovn\u00ed autoritu k tomu, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[112],"tags":[76],"class_list":["post-10168","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nabozenstvi","tag-david-hayward"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10168","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10168"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10168\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10174,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10168\/revisions\/10174"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10168"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10168"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10168"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}