N\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 trauma pod k\u016f\u017e\u00ed
\nV\u00edra, kter\u00e1 m\u00edsto nad\u011bje p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ela strach<\/p>\n
Zku\u0161enost z mnoha terapi\u00ed ukazuje spole\u010dn\u00fd motiv:
\nLid\u00e9 nep\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed s odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00edm Boha.
\nP\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed s bolest\u00ed, \u017ee byli vedeni k obrazu Boha, kter\u00fd trest\u00e1, sleduje, podmi\u0148uje l\u00e1sku poslu\u0161nost\u00ed.
\nJejich v\u00edra jim nezachra\u0148ovala du\u0161i \u2013 ale sv\u00edrala mysl.<\/p>\n
Co je n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 trauma?
\nZvenku m\u016f\u017ee vypadat jako \u201enorm\u00e1ln\u00ed v\u00fdchova ve v\u00ed\u0159e\u201c.<\/p>\n
Uvnit\u0159 je to ale jinak:
\n\u2013 p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fd dozor nad my\u0161lenkami
\n\u2013 \u00fazkost z chyb
\n\u2013 pop\u0159en\u00ed vlastn\u00edch pot\u0159eb
\n\u2013 vnit\u0159n\u00ed hlas, kter\u00fd neust\u00e1le \u0159\u00edk\u00e1: \u201eNejsi dost dobr\u00fd.\u201c<\/p>\n
Typick\u00e9 vnit\u0159n\u00ed dilema (z terapi\u00ed):
\n\u201eChci v\u011b\u0159it, \u017ee existuje n\u011bco v\u00edc. Ale nev\u00edm, komu u\u017e m\u016f\u017eu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat.
\nBoj\u00edm se i modlit. Co kdy\u017e \u0159\u00edk\u00e1m n\u011bco \u0161patn\u011b?\u201c
\nN\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 trauma nevznik\u00e1 jen z jedn\u00e9 ud\u00e1losti. Vznik\u00e1 pomalu \u2013 ka\u017edodenn\u00edm tlakem, kter\u00fd ti bere mo\u017enost b\u00fdt s\u00e1m sebou.<\/p>\n
Pro\u010d o tom lid\u00e9 ml\u010d\u00ed?
\n\u2013 Proto\u017ee \u201ese to p\u0159ece nemyslelo zle\u201c
\n\u2013 Proto\u017ee \u201ev\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed jsou ok, v nepo\u0159\u00e1dku jsem jen j\u00e1\u201c
\n\u2013 Proto\u017ee \u201ekritizovat v\u00edru znamen\u00e1 odpadnout\u201c<\/p>\n
Ale v terapii bolest kone\u010dn\u011b dost\u00e1v\u00e1 prostor. A n\u011bkdy poprv\u00e9 v \u017eivot\u011b m\u016f\u017ee zazn\u00edt v\u011bta:
\n\u201eTohle, co se ti d\u011blo, nebylo v po\u0159\u00e1dku.\u201c<\/p>\n
Za\u010d\u00e1tek zm\u011bny? Pochopit, \u017ee to nebyla tvoje vina<\/p>\n
V terapii \u010dasto zazn\u00edv\u00e1 tich\u00e1 \u00faleva, kdy\u017e si \u010dlov\u011bk uv\u011bdom\u00ed:
\nNezklamal jsem Boha.
\nJen jsem se sna\u017eil p\u0159e\u017e\u00edt v syst\u00e9mu, kter\u00fd m\u011b u\u010dil se b\u00e1t.
\n\u201eCel\u00fd \u017eivot jsem se sna\u017eil b\u00fdt poslu\u0161n\u00fd, abych si zaslou\u017eil p\u0159ijet\u00ed.
\nDnes poprv\u00e9 zji\u0161\u0165uju, \u017ee p\u0159ijet\u00ed nen\u00ed n\u011bco, co se vydob\u00fdv\u00e1 \u2013 je to n\u011bco, co m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt p\u0159irozen\u00e9.\u201c<\/p>\n
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N\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 trauma pod k\u016f\u017e\u00ed V\u00edra, kter\u00e1 m\u00edsto nad\u011bje p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161ela strach Zku\u0161enost z mnoha terapi\u00ed ukazuje spole\u010dn\u00fd motiv: Lid\u00e9 nep\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed s odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00edm Boha. P\u0159ich\u00e1zej\u00ed s bolest\u00ed, \u017ee byli vedeni k obrazu Boha, kter\u00fd trest\u00e1, sleduje, podmi\u0148uje l\u00e1sku poslu\u0161nost\u00ed. Jejich v\u00edra jim nezachra\u0148ovala du\u0161i \u2013 ale sv\u00edrala mysl. Co je n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 trauma? […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5,112],"tags":[63],"class_list":["post-10433","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","category-nabozenstvi","tag-robert-krejci"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10433","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10433"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10433\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10434,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10433\/revisions\/10434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10433"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10433"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10433"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}