V\u00edra jako l\u00e1ska \u2013 nebo jako past?<\/p>\n
V\u00edra by m\u011bla b\u00fdt prostorem svobody, d\u016fv\u011bry a r\u016fstu.<\/p>\n
Ale kdy\u017e se z n\u00ed stane n\u00e1stroj kontroly, p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 b\u00fdt osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed a za\u010dne ni\u010dit.<\/p>\n
Manipulace s v\u00edrou vypad\u00e1 zbo\u017en\u011b.
\n\u010casto zn\u00ed jako:
\n\u2013 \u201eD\u011bl\u00e1m to, proto\u017ee t\u011b miluji.\u201c
\n\u2013 \u201eTohle \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Bible.\u201c
\n\u2013 \u201eJenom B\u016fh t\u011b m\u016f\u017ee zachr\u00e1nit \u2013 skrze n\u00e1s.\u201c<\/p>\n
Ale jej\u00ed d\u016fsledky jsou tich\u00e9 a devastuj\u00edc\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Typick\u00e9 formy manipulace<\/p>\n
1. Podm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 p\u0159ijet\u00ed
\n\u201eB\u016fh t\u011b miluje\u2026 pokud poslouch\u00e1\u0161.\u201c
\n\u2013 L\u00e1ska se st\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00fdm\u011bnou.
\n\u2013 P\u0159ijet\u00ed je z\u00e1visl\u00e9 na v\u00fdkonu.
\n\u2013 Chyba znamen\u00e1 vylou\u010den\u00ed nebo opovr\u017een\u00ed.<\/p>\n
2. Vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed strachu
\n\u201eJestli neuv\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u0161 spr\u00e1vn\u011b, skon\u010d\u00ed\u0161 v pekle.\u201c
\n\u2013 V\u00edra p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 b\u00fdt d\u016fv\u011brou.
\n\u2013 Lid\u00e9 z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed jen ze strachu.<\/p>\n
3. Kontrola skrze autoritu
\n\u201eMy m\u00e1me pravdu \u2013 ty mus\u00ed\u0161 poslouchat.\u201c
\n\u2013 Duchovn\u00ed v\u016fdce (nebo komunita) se st\u00e1v\u00e1 neomyln\u00fdm.
\n\u2013 Pochybnosti jsou znakem slabosti nebo h\u0159\u00edchu.<\/p>\n
4. Gaslighting
\n\u201eTo si jen mysl\u00ed\u0161. Jsi duchovn\u011b slep\u00fd.\u201c
\n\u2013 Zpochybn\u011bn\u00ed vlastn\u00edho vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed reality.
\n\u2013 Pop\u0159en\u00ed emoc\u00ed, sv\u011bdom\u00ed, intuice.<\/p>\n
5. Zneu\u017eit\u00ed Bible
\n\u2013 Vytrh\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed ver\u0161\u016f z kontextu.
\n\u2013 Pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed P\u00edsma jako kladiva.
\n\u2013 Citace slou\u017e\u00ed k uml\u010den\u00ed, ne k porozum\u011bn\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Jak manipulace p\u016fsob\u00ed?<\/p>\n
\u2013 \u010clov\u011bk za\u010dne pochybovat o sob\u011b.
\n\u2013 Uv\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee bez \u201espr\u00e1vn\u00e9ho v\u00fdkladu\u201c nem\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edstup k Bohu.
\n\u2013 P\u0159estane d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat sv\u00e9mu sv\u011bdom\u00ed.
\n\u2013 Boj\u00ed se \u0159\u00edct \u201enev\u011b\u0159\u00edm tomu\u201c \u2013 proto\u017ee by to znamenalo vypadnout z p\u0159ijet\u00ed.<\/p>\n
\u201eByl jsem p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00fd, \u017ee kdy\u017e p\u0159estanu v\u011b\u0159it tomu, co \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 kazatel, ztr\u00e1c\u00edm i Boha. Dlouho jsem nev\u011bd\u011bl, \u017ee mezi t\u00edm m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt rozd\u00edl.\u201c
\n(z terapie)<\/p>\n
Kdy\u017e se v\u00edra zm\u011bn\u00ed v z\u00e1vislost<\/p>\n
\u2013 Pot\u0159eba schv\u00e1len\u00ed shora (od autorit, od Boha).
\n\u2013 Strach ze samostatn\u00e9ho my\u0161len\u00ed.
\n\u2013 Ztr\u00e1ta vlastn\u00ed identity.
\n\u2013 Neschopnost ud\u011blat rozhodnut\u00ed bez \u201ebo\u017esk\u00e9ho potvrzen\u00ed\u201c.<\/p>\n
Cesta ven: Z v\u00edry jako klece ke svobod\u011b<\/p>\n
\u2013 Zpochybn\u011bn\u00ed nen\u00ed zrada.
\n\u2013 Pochybnost m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt za\u010d\u00e1tkem d\u016fv\u011bry \u2013 opravdov\u00e9.
\n\u2013 B\u016fh (byt\u00ed, l\u00e1ska, \u017eivot) nen\u00ed zprost\u0159edkovan\u00fd lidmi.
\n\u2013 L\u00e1ska nepot\u0159ebuje podm\u00ednky, strach ani autoritu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V\u00edra jako l\u00e1ska \u2013 nebo jako past? V\u00edra by m\u011bla b\u00fdt prostorem svobody, d\u016fv\u011bry a r\u016fstu. Ale kdy\u017e se z n\u00ed stane n\u00e1stroj kontroly, p\u0159est\u00e1v\u00e1 b\u00fdt osvobozuj\u00edc\u00ed a za\u010dne ni\u010dit. Manipulace s v\u00edrou vypad\u00e1 zbo\u017en\u011b. \u010casto zn\u00ed jako: \u2013 \u201eD\u011bl\u00e1m to, proto\u017ee t\u011b miluji.\u201c \u2013 \u201eTohle \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Bible.\u201c \u2013 \u201eJenom […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[5,112],"tags":[63],"class_list":["post-10438","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","category-nabozenstvi","tag-robert-krejci"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10438","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10438"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10438\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10439,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10438\/revisions\/10439"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10438"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10438"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10438"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}