V\u011bt\u0161ina rodi\u010d\u016f c\u00edt\u00ed tlak b\u00fdt lep\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e ve skute\u010dnosti jsou. A\u0165 u\u017e ten tlak p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed z rodiny, spole\u010dnosti, nebo z vlastn\u00edho nitra, vede k neust\u00e1l\u00e9mu pocitu selh\u00e1n\u00ed. My\u0161lenka \u201emus\u00edm b\u00fdt dokonal\u00fd rodi\u010d\u201c n\u00e1s paradoxn\u011b vzdaluje od d\u011bt\u00ed \u2013 za\u010dneme hr\u00e1t role, m\u00edsto abychom s nimi byli skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00ed. D\u011bti ale nepot\u0159ebuj\u00ed dokonalost. Pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed n\u00e1s vid\u011bt opravdov\u00e9 \u2013 se slabostmi i silami, s chybami i s t\u00edm, \u017ee se dok\u00e1\u017eeme omluvit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00fdtus dokonal\u00e9ho rodi\u010de nav\u00edc \u010dasto stoj\u00ed na p\u0159edstav\u00e1ch p\u0159evzat\u00fdch odjinud \u2013 n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdch ide\u00e1lech, psychologick\u00fdch teori\u00edch nebo modelech, kter\u00e9 jsme vid\u011bli u jin\u00fdch rodin. Tyto p\u0159edstavy v sob\u011b nesou neviditeln\u00fd bi\u010d: po\u0159\u00e1d se porovn\u00e1v\u00e1me s n\u011b\u010d\u00edm, co vlastn\u011b ani neexistuje. Skute\u010dn\u00fd vztah s d\u00edt\u011btem se ale rod\u00ed pr\u00e1v\u011b tam, kde si dovol\u00edme neb\u00fdt \u201ehotov\u00ed\u201c a kde se m\u00edsto hodnocen\u00ed u\u010d\u00edme naslouchat tomu, co se mezi n\u00e1mi skute\u010dn\u011b d\u011bje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Opu\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed honby za dokonalost\u00ed neznamen\u00e1 rezignaci. Znamen\u00e1 to sp\u00ed\u0161 n\u00e1vrat k p\u0159irozenosti. Kdy\u017e p\u0159ijmeme sebe i d\u00edt\u011b takov\u00e9, jac\u00ed jsme, m\u016f\u017eeme se st\u00e1t opravdov\u00fdmi pr\u016fvodci. A pr\u00e1v\u011b v takov\u00e9m prost\u0159ed\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee vztah mezi rodi\u010dem a d\u00edt\u011btem r\u016fst \u2013 proto\u017ee dokonalost vztah v\u017edycky zah\u00e1n\u00ed, zat\u00edmco opravdovost mu d\u00e1v\u00e1 prostor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V\u011bt\u0161ina rodi\u010d\u016f c\u00edt\u00ed tlak b\u00fdt lep\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e ve skute\u010dnosti jsou. A\u0165 u\u017e ten tlak p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed z rodiny, spole\u010dnosti, nebo z vlastn\u00edho nitra, vede k neust\u00e1l\u00e9mu pocitu selh\u00e1n\u00ed. My\u0161lenka \u201emus\u00edm b\u00fdt dokonal\u00fd rodi\u010d\u201c n\u00e1s paradoxn\u011b vzdaluje od d\u011bt\u00ed \u2013 za\u010dneme hr\u00e1t role, m\u00edsto abychom s nimi byli skute\u010dn\u011b p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00ed. D\u011bti ale […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[63],"class_list":["post-10467","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","tag-robert-krejci"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10467","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10467"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10467\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10467"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10467"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10467"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}