V c\u00edrkevn\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed je n\u011bkdy ticho o probl\u00e9mech br\u00e1no jako projev v\u00edry.
Trp\u00ed\u0161? Ml\u010d. M\u00e1\u0161 pot\u00ed\u017ee? Vy\u0161li v\u00edc d\u016fv\u011bry. Bojuje\u0161? Tak nepochybuj.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Jen\u017ee \u017eivot nen\u00ed v\u017edy v\u00edt\u011bzn\u00e1 p\u00edse\u0148.
Nemoc p\u0159ijde. Krize p\u0159ijde. Vztahy se l\u00e1mou. D\u011bti odch\u00e1zej\u00ed. Pen\u00edze chyb\u00ed.
A p\u0159esto je nep\u0159\u00edpustn\u00e9, aby to bylo poznat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eByli jsme \u00fapln\u011b na dn\u011b, ale v ned\u011bli jsme se obl\u00e9kli, usm\u00edvali, dr\u017eeli za ruce a \u0159ekli, \u017ee B\u016fh kon\u00e1 z\u00e1zraky.\u201c
(z terapie)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A kdy\u017e u\u017e se to ned\u00e1 schovat\u2026 p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed \u201educhovn\u00ed v\u00fdklad\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kdy\u017e u\u017e to praskne, nen\u00ed prostor pro autentickou bolest. M\u00edsto skute\u010dn\u00e9 pomoci p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed balic\u00ed pap\u00edr duchovn\u00edch fr\u00e1z\u00ed:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eBojujeme na modlitb\u00e1ch.\u201c
\u201eB\u016fh u\u017e na tom pracuje.\u201c
\u201eNep\u0159\u00edtel n\u00e1s napadl, proto\u017ee d\u011bl\u00e1me n\u011bco spr\u00e1vn\u011b.\u201c
\u201eJe to na\u0161e zkou\u0161ka.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
„Bylo pro m\u011b \u0161\u00edlen\u011b frustruj\u00edc\u00ed poslouchat tzv.sv\u011bdectv\u00ed, v\u017edy jim v\u0161e dopadlo tak dob\u0159e, mluvili jak je s nimi B\u016fh, jen u m\u011b se nic nelep\u0161ilo. Propadala sem se do beznad\u011bje a sebeodsouzen\u00ed.“ (z terapie)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nikdo se nechce uk\u00e1zat slab\u00fd. A u\u017e v\u016fbec ne selhat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
-Stra\u0161n\u00fd tlak na rodiny \u2013 nesm\u00ed\u0161 zklamat Boha ani okol\u00ed<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rodiny se pod t\u00edhou tohoto tlaku hrout\u00ed zevnit\u0159. Ne proto, \u017ee by byly hor\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e ostatn\u00ed \u2013 ale proto, \u017ee si nesm\u00ed dovolit b\u00fdt opravdov\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eM\u011bli jsme doma \u0161\u00edlen\u00e9 h\u00e1dky a z\u00e1rove\u0148 v\u00e9st skupinku. Nikdo se to nesm\u011bl dozv\u011bd\u011bt.\u201c (z terapie)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D\u011bti vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed v nap\u011bt\u00ed:
„Mus\u00edme b\u00fdt spr\u00e1vn\u00ed, jinak se uk\u00e1\u017ee, \u017ee t\u00e1ta s m\u00e1mou nemaj\u00ed v\u00edru.“ (z terapie)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Je to naprost\u00e9 p\u0159evr\u00e1cen\u00ed reality \u2013 m\u00edsto m\u00edsta p\u0159ijet\u00ed vznik\u00e1 emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed dusno.
Strach, \u017ee n\u00e1s n\u011bkdo prokoukne.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A komu se sv\u011b\u0159it? Nikomu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
T\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 na tom je, \u017ee si nen\u00ed kam doj\u00edt pro pomoc.
Kdy\u017e se sv\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u0161, \u010dasto p\u0159ijde rada: \u201eJe t\u0159eba v\u00edc v\u011b\u0159it.\u201c
Kdy\u017e se otev\u0159e\u0161, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 b\u00fdt ozna\u010den za slab\u00e9ho, zran\u011bn\u00e9ho, nev\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00edho.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eCht\u011bla jsem jen \u0159\u00edct, \u017ee u\u017e to doma nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1me \u2013 a oni mi \u0159ekli, \u017ee asi nedostate\u010dn\u011b \u010dteme Bibli.\u201c (z terapie)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Takhle vznik\u00e1 nejhlub\u0161\u00ed osam\u011bn\u00ed \u2013 duchovn\u00ed izolace ve jm\u00e9nu v\u00edry.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V c\u00edrkevn\u00edm prost\u0159ed\u00ed je n\u011bkdy ticho o probl\u00e9mech br\u00e1no jako projev v\u00edry.Trp\u00ed\u0161? Ml\u010d. M\u00e1\u0161 pot\u00ed\u017ee? Vy\u0161li v\u00edc d\u016fv\u011bry. Bojuje\u0161? Tak nepochybuj. Jen\u017ee \u017eivot nen\u00ed v\u017edy v\u00edt\u011bzn\u00e1 p\u00edse\u0148.Nemoc p\u0159ijde. Krize p\u0159ijde. Vztahy se l\u00e1mou. D\u011bti odch\u00e1zej\u00ed. Pen\u00edze chyb\u00ed.A p\u0159esto je nep\u0159\u00edpustn\u00e9, aby to bylo poznat. \u201eByli jsme \u00fapln\u011b na dn\u011b, ale […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[63],"class_list":["post-10478","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","tag-robert-krejci"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10478","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=10478"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10478\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=10478"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=10478"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=10478"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}