N\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed mus\u00ed pou\u017e\u00edvat z\u00e1kon, aby pro sebe z\u00edskalo moc a mohlo ovl\u00e1dat lidi, kter\u00e9 pot\u0159ebuje pro p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. B\u016fh\u00a0n\u00e1m d\u00e1v\u00e1 schopnost na to odpov\u00eddat a na\u0161\u00ed odpov\u011bd\u00ed je svoboda milovat a slou\u017eit v jak\u00e9koliv situaci, a proto je ka\u017ed\u00e1 chv\u00edle jin\u00e1, jedine\u010dn\u00e1 a \u00fa\u017easn\u00e1. On\u00a0je na\u0161e schopnost odpov\u00eddat, a proto v n\u00e1s mus\u00ed b\u00fdt v\u017edy\u00a0p\u0159\u00edtomn\u00fd. Kdybychom jednodu\u0161e dostali\u00a0zodpov\u011bdnost, nemusel by s n\u00e1mi v\u016fbec b\u00fdt. Byl by to \u00fakol, kter\u00fd m\u00e1me vykonat, povinnost, kterou m\u00e1te splnit, n\u011bco, v \u010dem m\u016f\u017eeme selhat.<\/p>\n
Nap\u0159\u00edklad\u00a0p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed. Pokud jsme v p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, v na\u0161em p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed existuj\u00ed n\u011bjak\u00e9 vyhl\u00eddky. Kdy\u017e se vid\u00edme anebo jsme od sebe odlou\u010deni, je tu vyhl\u00eddka na to, \u017ee budeme op\u011bt spolu, budeme se spole\u010dn\u011b sm\u00e1t a pov\u00eddat si. Tyto vyhl\u00eddky nemaj\u00ed \u017e\u00e1dnou konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed definici; jsou \u017eiv\u00e9 a dynamick\u00e9 a v\u0161echno, co vyplyne z toho, kdy\u017e jsme spolu, je jedine\u010dn\u00fd dar, kter\u00fd sd\u00edl\u00edme pouze my\u00a0dva. Co se ale stane, jestli\u017ee zm\u011bn\u00edme tyto ,vyhl\u00eddky‘ na ,o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed‘, a\u0165 u\u017e vysloven\u00e1, nebo nevysloven\u00e1? Najednou do na\u0161eho vztahu vstoupil z\u00e1kon a\u00a0te\u010f se od n\u00e1s\u00a0o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1, \u017ee se budeme chovat tak, abychom splnili o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed toho druh\u00e9ho. Na\u0161e \u017eiv\u00e9 p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed rychle uvad\u00e1 a st\u00e1v\u00e1 se mrtvou v\u011bc\u00ed plnou pravidel a po\u017eadavk\u016f. U\u017e v n\u011bm nejde o na\u0161e p\u0159\u00e1telstv\u00ed, ale o to, co se p\u0159edpokl\u00e1d\u00e1, \u017ee p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9 d\u011blaj\u00ed, nebo o zodpov\u011bdnost „b\u00fdt dobr\u00fdm p\u0159\u00edtelem.“<\/p>\n
Napadne n\u00e1s,\u00a0kdyby v\u0161ak\u00a0neexistovala o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a zodpov\u011bdnost, nerozpadlo by se prost\u011b v\u0161echno? Ano, pokud bychom byli ve sv\u011bt\u011b odd\u011blen\u00e9m od Boha a \u0159\u00edzen\u00e9m pouze z\u00e1konem. Zodpov\u011bdnost a o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed tvo\u0159\u00ed z\u00e1klad pro vinu, stud a soud a poskytuj\u00ed hlavn\u00ed r\u00e1mec pro to, aby se v\u00fdkon stal rozhoduj\u00edc\u00edm faktorem pro identitu a hodnotu a\u00a0v\u00edme dob\u0159e, jak se \u017eije s v\u011bdom\u00edm, \u017ee jsme nesplnili n\u011b\u010d\u00ed o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. B\u016fh nikdy nevkl\u00e1dal o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed v n\u00e1s\u00a0ani v kohokoliv jin\u00e9ho. Smyslem o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed je, \u017ee nezn\u00e1me budoucnost, nev\u00edme, jak n\u011bco dopadne, a pokou\u0161\u00edme se \u0159\u00eddit n\u011b\u010d\u00ed chov\u00e1n\u00ed, abychom dos\u00e1hli po\u017eadovan\u00e9ho v\u00fdsledku. A lid\u00e9 se \u010dasto sna\u017e\u00ed ovl\u00e1dat chov\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00fdch prost\u0159ednictv\u00edm o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed. B\u016fh n\u00e1s\u00a0v\u0161ak zn\u00e1 a v\u00ed o v\u00e1s v\u0161echno. Pro\u010d by m\u011bl o\u010dek\u00e1vat n\u011bco jin\u00e9ho ne\u017e to, co u\u017e o n\u00e1s v\u00ed? To by bylo nesmysln\u00e9. A nav\u00edc, jeliko\u017e nem\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed, nikdy jej\u00a0nezklameme.<\/p>\n
On, ohledn\u011b n\u00e1s, m\u00e1 st\u00e1l\u00e9 a \u017eiv\u00e9 vyhl\u00eddky na\u0161eho vztahu a d\u00e1v\u00e1 n\u00e1m schopnost reagovat na jakoukoliv situaci a jak\u00e9koliv okolnosti, ve kter\u00fdch se ocitneme. Podle toho, do jak\u00e9 m\u00edry se uch\u00fdl\u00edme k o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a zodpov\u011bdnosti, v takov\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e Jej\u00a0bu\u010f nezn\u00e1me, nebo Mu ned\u016fv\u011b\u0159ujeme,\u00a0a v t\u00e9 m\u00ed\u0159e budeme \u017e\u00edt ve strachu. Proto po n\u00e1s ani nechce, abychom si stanovili priority –\u00a0B\u016fh prvn\u00ed, na druh\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b n\u011bco, a pak zase n\u011bco, atp. Kdy\u017e toti\u017e \u017eijeme podle priorit, vid\u00edme v\u0161echno jako hierarchii, pyramidu a\u00a0pokud\u00a0Boha d\u00e1me na jej\u00ed vrchol, co to vlastn\u011b znamen\u00e1? Co je skute\u010dn\u011b dost? Kolik \u010dasu Mu\u00a0d\u00e1me, ne\u017e si m\u016f\u017eeme j\u00edt po sv\u00e9m a v\u011bnovat se tomu, co n\u00e1s\u00a0zaj\u00edm\u00e1 daleko v\u00edc?<\/p>\n
B\u016fh nechce jen kus n\u00e1s\u00a0a kus na\u0161eho\u00a0\u017eivota. Dokonce i kdybychom mohli, co\u017e nem\u016f\u017eeme, d\u00e1t Mu\u00a0ten nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00ed kus, nebude to, co chce On. On\u00a0n\u00e1s chce cel\u00e9 a ka\u017edou, ka\u017edi\u010dkou \u010d\u00e1st n\u00e1s\u00a0a na\u0161eho\u00a0dne. On\u00a0nechce b\u00fdt prvn\u00ed na n\u011bjak\u00e9m seznamu hodnot, chce b\u00fdt st\u0159edem v\u0161eho. Kdy\u017e v n\u00e1s toti\u017e bude\u00a0\u017e\u00edt, pak m\u016f\u017eeme spole\u010dn\u011b pro\u017e\u00edvat v\u0161echno, co se n\u00e1m\u00a0p\u0159ihod\u00ed a\u00a0sp\u00ed\u0161e ne\u017e na pyramid\u011b chce, aby v\u0161echno v na\u0161em\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b – na\u0161i\u00a0p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9, na\u0161e\u00a0rodina, povol\u00e1n\u00ed, my\u0161lenky i\u00a0\u010dinnosti – bylo\u00a0spojen\u00e9 s N\u00edm, pohybovalo se s v\u011btrem, sem a tam, dop\u0159edu a dozadu, neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00fdm tancem byt\u00ed, a\u00a0t\u00edm v\u011btrem je Duch svat\u00fd.<\/p>\n
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