Mnoho lid\u00ed se tr\u00e1p\u00ed kv\u016fli emoc\u00edm, neradi je c\u00edt\u00ed. Ubl\u00ed\u017eili jimi druh\u00fdm lidem, ubli\u017euj\u00ed jimi sami sob\u011b a mysl\u00ed si, \u017ee jim v\u016fbec nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 porozum\u011bt nato\u017e d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. Jak to tedy je? Stvo\u0159il B\u016fh v\u0161echny emoce, nebo stvo\u0159il jen ty dobr\u00e9?<\/p>\n
Emoce jsou barvami du\u0161e; jsou velkolep\u00e9 a neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e9. Kdy\u017e je nec\u00edt\u00edme, sv\u011bt se st\u00e1v\u00e1 mdl\u00fdm a bezbarv\u00fdm a naopak velk\u00fd smutek v na\u0161em nitru omezuje barevnou paletu na\u0161eho \u017eivota na jednotv\u00e1rn\u00e9 odst\u00edny \u0161ed\u00e9 a \u010dern\u00e9.<\/p>\n
Jak je tedy pochopit?<\/p>\n
Jednodu\u0161e, nen\u00ed na nich toti\u017e co ch\u00e1pat. Prost\u011b existuj\u00ed. Nejsou ani \u0161patn\u00e9, ani dobr\u00e9, prost\u011b jsou. Vzorce v na\u0161em my\u0161len\u00ed vzn\u011bcuj\u00ed vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed a vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed pak vzn\u011bcuje emoce. V\u011bt\u0161ina emoc\u00ed je tedy reakc\u00ed na na\u0161e vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed – na to, co si mysl\u00edme, \u017ee je o dan\u00e9 situaci pravda. Pokud vn\u00edm\u00e1me myln\u011b, bude i na\u0161e emo\u010dn\u00ed reakce chybn\u00e1. Proto je pot\u0159eba si sv\u00e9 vn\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed ov\u011b\u0159ovat a mimo to je t\u0159eba si ov\u011b\u0159ovat i pravdivost sv\u00fdch vzorc\u016f – tedy to, v co v\u011b\u0159\u00edme. Jen proto, \u017ee v n\u011bco pevn\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edme, je\u0161t\u011b neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee je to pravda. Stejn\u011b jako, kdy\u017e se c\u00edt\u00edme zle, nevypov\u00edd\u00e1 to nic o tom, \u017ee nutn\u011b v\u011b\u0159\u00edme zle. Bu\u010fme tedy p\u0159ipraveni znovu p\u0159ezkoum\u00e1vat to, \u010demu v\u011b\u0159\u00edme. \u010c\u00edm v\u00edc budeme \u017e\u00edt v pravd\u011b, t\u00edm v\u00edc n\u00e1m na\u0161e emoce pomohou vid\u011bt jasn\u011b. Ale ani potom bychom jim nem\u011bli d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat v\u00edc ne\u017e Bohu.<\/p>\n
Ale jak mu d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat, kdy\u017e ani v tomto v\u017edy nec\u00edt\u00edme, \u017ee by s n\u00e1mi byl celou dobu?<\/p>\n
On je v\u017edycky s n\u00e1mi a to, jestli si to uv\u011bdomujeme, nebo ne, nem\u00e1 nic spole\u010dn\u00e9ho s t\u00edm, jestli tu skute\u010dn\u011b je, nebo nen\u00ed. On je v\u017edycky s n\u00e1mi, jen n\u011bkdy chce, abychom si toho byli mimo\u0159\u00e1dn\u011b v\u011bdomi – v\u00edc si to uv\u011bdomovali. M\u016f\u017eeme na n\u011bj tedy v\u017edycky mluvit a On bude v\u017edycky s n\u00e1mi, a\u0165 u\u017e jeho p\u0159\u00edtomnost vyc\u00edt\u00edme, nebo ne.<\/p>\n
A jak ho usly\u0161\u00edme?<\/p>\n
Tak, \u017ee se nau\u010d\u00edme poslouchat jeho my\u0161lenky ve sv\u00fdch.<\/p>\n
A budou v\u017edy tak z\u0159eteln\u00e9? Co kdy\u017e je zam\u011bn\u00edme za jin\u00fd hlas? Co kdy\u017e se spleteme?<\/p>\n
Ov\u0161em \u017ee budeme d\u011blat chyby, ka\u017ed\u00fd d\u011bl\u00e1 chyby, ale postupn\u011b, jak se bude n\u00e1\u0161 vztah vyv\u00edjet, budeme jeho hlas l\u00e9pe rozezn\u00e1vat. Jasn\u00e9, \u017ee chyby d\u011blat nechceme, nejsou n\u00e1m v\u016fbec pohodln\u00e9, ale chyby jsou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed \u017eivota a i jimi B\u016fh dosahuje sv\u00fdch z\u00e1m\u011br\u016f.<\/p>\n
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Mnoho lid\u00ed se tr\u00e1p\u00ed kv\u016fli emoc\u00edm, neradi je c\u00edt\u00ed. Ubl\u00ed\u017eili jimi druh\u00fdm lidem, ubli\u017euj\u00ed jimi sami sob\u011b a mysl\u00ed si, \u017ee jim v\u016fbec nen\u00ed mo\u017en\u00e9 porozum\u011bt nato\u017e d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. Jak to tedy je? Stvo\u0159il B\u016fh v\u0161echny emoce, nebo stvo\u0159il jen ty dobr\u00e9? Emoce jsou barvami du\u0161e; jsou velkolep\u00e9 a neuv\u011b\u0159iteln\u00e9. Kdy\u017e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[43],"class_list":["post-3984","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","tag-william-paul-young"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3984","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3984"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3984\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3985,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3984\/revisions\/3985"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3984"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3984"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3984"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}