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B\u011bhem sv\u00e9ho \u017eivota jsem pozoroval r\u016fzn\u00e9 druhy dekonstrukce \u2013 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed a filozofickou.
\nDekonstrukce \u201ez c\u00edrkve\u201c, tedy ta soci\u00e1ln\u00ed, zasahuje rodinu, p\u0159\u00e1tele, man\u017eelstv\u00ed, ka\u017edodenn\u00ed \u010dinnosti, odpov\u011bdnosti, loajalitu i zku\u0161enosti s duchovn\u00edm zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm. N\u00e1sleduje dekonstrukce \u201ez p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed\u201c, tedy filozofick\u00e1: ot\u00e1zky smyslu \u017eivota, \u00fa\u010delu byt\u00ed, osudu, nad\u011bje, pohledu na posmrtn\u00fd \u017eivot, d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d jsi byl milov\u00e1n, chr\u00e1n\u011bn a o koho bylo pe\u010dov\u00e1no.<\/p>\n
Ob\u011b tyto dekonstrukce jsou n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9. A pokud prob\u00edhaj\u00ed sou\u010dasn\u011b, pak up\u0159\u00edmn\u011b \u2013 p\u0159eji hodn\u011b sil.<\/p>\n
Tak jako v\u00e1s na za\u010d\u00e1tku v\u00edra a c\u00edrkev dok\u00e1zaly ohromit a formovat, stejn\u011b \u2013 ne-li je\u0161t\u011b siln\u011bji \u2013 v\u00e1s zas\u00e1hne i jejich rozklad. Ovlivn\u00ed va\u0161e du\u0161evn\u00ed zdrav\u00ed, t\u011blo, chu\u0165 k j\u00eddlu, vztahy, smysl pro \u00fa\u010del i v\u00e1\u0161 pohled na sv\u011bt. Zas\u00e1hne v\u0161echno a nic nez\u016fstane nedot\u010den\u00e9. V ur\u010dit\u00e9m bod\u011b prost\u011b jen p\u0159e\u017e\u00edv\u00e1te. M\u00e1te pocit, jako byste se narodili do nov\u00e9ho sv\u011bta, kde nen\u00ed dost kysl\u00edku. Nic u\u017e nen\u00ed takov\u00e9, jak\u00e9 bylo \u2013 a to m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt hluboce traumatizuj\u00edc\u00ed. A mohu v\u00e1s ujistit: mnoz\u00ed lid\u00e9 kolem v\u00e1s tomuto traumatu nebudou rozum\u011bt.<\/p>\n
No a co.<\/p>\n
D\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 je, abyste se za\u010dali starat o sebe a dovolili si b\u00fdt sami sebou. Jednou z v\u011bc\u00ed, ze kter\u00fdch se budete muset b\u011bhem dekonstrukce vymanit, je p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, \u017ee se mus\u00edte neust\u00e1le \u0159\u00eddit t\u00edm, co si mysl\u00ed druz\u00ed \u2013 jen abyste je n\u00e1hodou nezklamali. Toto p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed je produktem teologicko-c\u00edrkevn\u00edho my\u0161len\u00ed, kter\u00e9 n\u00e1s u\u010dilo, \u017ee nikoho nikdy nesm\u00edme pohor\u0161it, a pokud se tak stane, je to na\u0161e vina, kterou mus\u00edme napravit. To v\u0161ak nen\u00ed pravda. A pr\u00e1v\u011b b\u011bhem dekonstrukce to za\u010dnete postupn\u011b rozpozn\u00e1vat. Nejde o aroganci.<\/p>\n
Na prvn\u00edm m\u00edst\u011b se toti\u017e mus\u00edte postarat o sebe \u2013 bez ohledu na to, co si o tom ostatn\u00ed mysl\u00ed. Je na v\u00e1s, abyste si na\u0161li vlastn\u00ed cestu, kter\u00e1 u\u017e nebude diktov\u00e1na o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm druh\u00fdch.<\/p>\n
\u0158\u00edk\u00e1m to ka\u017ed\u00e9mu, s k\u00fdm o tom mluv\u00edm: Vytvo\u0159 si sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed, jedine\u010dn\u00fd \u010das. U\u010d se naslouchat sob\u011b a hledat svou cestu. Postupn\u011b zjist\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee jsi s\u00e1m sob\u011b t\u00edm nejlep\u0161\u00edm pe\u010dovatelem. Je \u010das za\u010d\u00edt s t\u00edmto aspektem pracovat.<\/p>\n
David Hayward<\/p>\n
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Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee intenzita na\u0161\u00ed dekonstrukce z n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed (tedy ztr\u00e1ta v\u00edry, zm\u011bna p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010den\u00ed, dekonverze apod.) odpov\u00edd\u00e1 intenzit\u011b n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 oddanosti, kterou jsme d\u0159\u00edve \u017eili. Pokud pro v\u00e1s bylo n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed sp\u00ed\u0161e povrchn\u00edm kon\u00ed\u010dkem, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dekonstrukce m\u00edrn\u00e1 a relativn\u011b snadn\u00e1. Pokud v\u0161ak bylo va\u0161\u00edm v\u0161\u00edm, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dekonstrukce hlubok\u00e1, intenzivn\u00ed a bolestn\u00e1. Pro […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[112],"tags":[76,34],"class_list":["post-4578","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-nabozenstvi","tag-david-hayward","tag-sozo"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4578","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=4578"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4578\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":10503,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4578\/revisions\/10503"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=4578"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=4578"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=4578"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}