V jednom ze sv\u00fdch podobenstv\u00ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee by plevel, rostouc\u00ed v jednom poli s p\u0161enic\u00ed, nem\u011bl b\u00fdt hned odstra\u0148ov\u00e1n, proto\u017ee by se mohlo st\u00e1t, \u017ee s plevelem odstran\u00edme tak\u00e9 p\u0161enici.<\/p>\n
Prakticky m\u016f\u017eeme toto podobenstv\u00ed aplikovat tak\u00e9 tak, \u017ee k sob\u011b osobn\u011b, ale i vz\u00e1jemn\u011b, m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt laskav\u00ed, kdy\u017e zkoum\u00e1me a rozli\u0161ujeme, co je v na\u0161ich \u017eivotech dob\u0159e, a co je \u0161patn\u011b. A zejm\u00e9na v tom, co pova\u017eujeme za negativn\u00ed.<\/p>\n
N\u011bkdy jsou toti\u017e v na\u0161ich \u017eivotech v\u011bci, kter\u00e9 se n\u00e1m nel\u00edb\u00ed, nicm\u00e9n\u011b rozv\u00edj\u00ed n\u00e1\u0161 charakter. D\u00edky nim dok\u00e1\u017eeme l\u00e9pe vn\u00edmat pozitivn\u00ed rysy na\u0161ich vnit\u0159n\u00edch \u017eivot\u016f.<\/p>\n
Nap\u0159\u00edklad, m\u00e1m velkou pot\u0159ebu kontrolovat sv\u016fj \u017eivot kv\u016fli strachu z toho, \u017ee se n\u011bco pokaz\u00ed. A to aplikuji i na \u017eivoty lid\u00ed, kter\u00e9 miluji, proto\u017ee nechci, aby se jim n\u011bco stalo. M\u016f\u017ee m\u011b to tedy snadno v\u00e9st k tomu, \u017ee se v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm budu chovat, jako ovl\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00ed osoba, jako kontrolor. Kdy\u017e to v\u0161ak rozezn\u00e1m a jsem si toho v\u011bdom, m\u016f\u017eu za\u010d\u00edt jednat tak, abych se v\u016f\u010di druh\u00fdm t\u00edmto ovl\u00e1daj\u00edc\u00edm zp\u016fsobem nechoval, abych je nemanipuloval. Neznamen\u00e1 to nutn\u011b, \u017ee to eliminuje mou pot\u0159ebu kontroly, ale budu si toho v\u011bdom. V\u00fdsledkem pak m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt, \u017ee dok\u00e1\u017eu b\u00fdt ohledupln\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem, kter\u00fd osvobozuje a zmoc\u0148uje druh\u00e9 k tomu, aby se stali nez\u00e1visl\u00fdmi.<\/p>\n
Nejpokorn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00e9ho zn\u00e1te, pak klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee bojovat s p\u00fdchou. Nejpokojn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00e9ho zn\u00e1te, se klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee pot\u00fdkat s hn\u011bvem. Nej\u0161\u0165astn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk, kter\u00e9ho zn\u00e1te, se klidn\u011b m\u016f\u017ee pot\u00fdkat se smutkem.<\/p>\n
Pou\u017eiji tuto analogii:<\/p>\n
Velmi jednodu\u0161e \u0159e\u010deno, kompost je vyroben z hovna a z hl\u00edny. Jedno je „\u0161patn\u00e9“ a druh\u00e9 „dobr\u00e9“, spole\u010dn\u011b se v\u0161ak toto \u201e\u0161patn\u00e9\u201c a \u201edobr\u00e9\u201c m\u00eds\u00ed dohromady, aby to vytvo\u0159ilo bohatou p\u016fdu, vhodnou pro plodn\u00fd r\u016fst.<\/p>\n
S na\u0161imi \u017eivoty je to stejn\u00e9. M\u00e1me plevel a m\u00e1me p\u0161enici. M\u00e1me hovno a m\u00e1me ctnost. P\u0159ejeme si, aby hovno nebylo, ale je. A to v\u0161e, sm\u00edch\u00e1no dohromady, vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed bohatou p\u016fdu, z n\u00ed\u017e vyr\u016fstaj\u00ed na\u0161e jedine\u010dn\u00e9 \u017eivoty.<\/p>\n
Upraveno z \u010dl\u00e1nku Davida Haywarda<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V jednom ze sv\u00fdch podobenstv\u00ed Je\u017e\u00ed\u0161 \u0159\u00edk\u00e1, \u017ee by plevel, rostouc\u00ed v jednom poli s p\u0161enic\u00ed, nem\u011bl b\u00fdt hned odstra\u0148ov\u00e1n, proto\u017ee by se mohlo st\u00e1t, \u017ee s plevelem odstran\u00edme tak\u00e9 p\u0161enici. Prakticky m\u016f\u017eeme toto podobenstv\u00ed aplikovat tak\u00e9 tak, \u017ee k sob\u011b osobn\u011b, ale i vz\u00e1jemn\u011b, m\u016f\u017eeme b\u00fdt laskav\u00ed, kdy\u017e zkoum\u00e1me […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[76],"class_list":["post-5716","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","tag-david-hayward"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5716","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5716"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5716\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8242,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5716\/revisions\/8242"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5716"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5716"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5716"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}