{"id":6076,"date":"2020-09-05T08:22:36","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T06:22:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6076"},"modified":"2021-01-27T11:26:01","modified_gmt":"2021-01-27T10:26:01","slug":"neni-rodina-jako-rodina","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6076","title":{"rendered":"Nen\u00ed rodina, jako rodina"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pokud dosp\u011bji a opust\u00edm rodinu, abych se postavil na vlastn\u00ed nohy, je to hodnoceno jako r\u016fst, a tedy ovoce dobr\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy. Rodina pak ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u0161e proto, aby m\u011b podpo\u0159ila, a abych p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e1 po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed zakol\u00eds\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ekonal a stal se skute\u010dn\u011b samostatn\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem. Pokud tento proces v rodin\u011b v\u00e1zne, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme, kde jsme ud\u011blali chybu, a jak j\u00ed m\u016f\u017eeme napravit.<\/p>\n<p>Pokud, kv\u016fli postaven\u00ed se na vlastn\u00ed nohy, opust\u00edm c\u00edrkev, kter\u00e1 se za rodinu \u010dasto ozna\u010duje, je to hodnoceno, jako \u00fapadek a v\u00fdsledek \u0161patn\u00e9ho \u017eivota v dob\u011b, kdy jsem v rodin\u011b byl. C\u00edrkev pak, pokud m\u011b rovnou nezavrhne, ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u0161e proto, aby m\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed zpochybnila, snahu st\u00e1t se samostatn\u00fdm mi vymluvila, jako velmi nebezpe\u010dnou a vr\u00e1tila m\u011b zp\u011bt. Pokud tedy tento proces, vznikaj\u00edc\u00ed touhy st\u00e1t se samostatn\u00fdm, nastane v c\u00edrkvi, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme, kde jsme ud\u011blali chybu, a jak j\u00ed napravit.<\/p>\n<p>A toto p\u0159ekroucen\u00ed v\u00fdznamu m\u016f\u017eeme vid\u011bt i v dal\u0161\u00edch oblastech. Tak\u017ee v t\u00e9to c\u00edrkevn\u00ed rodin\u011b je norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, \u017ee otec p\u0159iprav\u00ed mu\u010den\u00ed pro sv\u00e9 d\u011bti; milenec si l\u00e1sku sv\u00e9 vyvolen\u00e9 vynucuje v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017ekami smrt\u00ed; sm\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed, se znovu hodl\u00e1 vyh\u0159eznout v podob\u011b hn\u011bvu a v\u00fdchova nepoddajn\u00fdch se vy\u0159e\u0161\u00ed vyd\u00e1nim ke zn\u00e1sil\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed a zab\u00edjen\u00ed \u00fahlavn\u00edm nep\u0159\u00edtelem. V\u0161e je pak vyd\u00e1v\u00e1no za projev neskute\u010dn\u00e9 l\u00e1sky.<\/p>\n<p>Jin\u00fdmi slovy to, co se naz\u00fdv\u00e1 rodinou, se ne v\u017edy jako rodina chov\u00e1, nebo sp\u00ed\u0161e rodinou je. \u010casto jde sp\u00ed\u0161e o podvod, kter\u00fd m\u00e1 za c\u00edl, pod rou\u0161kou rodiny, zcela p\u0159ekroutit prav\u00fd smysl a v\u00fdznam v\u011bc\u00ed. Z dobr\u00e9ho u\u010dinit zl\u00e9 a zl\u00e9 pov\u00fd\u0161it na dobr\u00e9. A velmi \u010dast\u00fdm motivem tohoto zezdrav\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed je neztratit vliv a zdroje jako jsou \u010das, pen\u00edze, pozornost&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Nebojte se tedy postavit na vlastn\u00ed nohy. \ud83d\ude0b\ud83e\udd17\ud83d\udcaa\ud83d\udc63<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cit\u00e1t115o.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-7652 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cit\u00e1t115o.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"600\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cit\u00e1t115o.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/sozo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cit\u00e1t115o-300x150.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sozo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cit\u00e1t115o-1024x512.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/sozo.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/cit\u00e1t115o-768x384.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pokud dosp\u011bji a opust\u00edm rodinu, abych se postavil na vlastn\u00ed nohy, je to hodnoceno jako r\u016fst, a tedy ovoce dobr\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy. Rodina pak ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u0161e proto, aby m\u011b podpo\u0159ila, a abych p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e1 po\u010d\u00e1te\u010dn\u00ed zakol\u00eds\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159ekonal a stal se skute\u010dn\u011b samostatn\u00fdm \u010dlov\u011bkem. Pokud tento proces v rodin\u011b v\u00e1zne, p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161l\u00edme, kde jsme [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[109],"tags":[76,34],"class_list":["post-6076","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cirkev","tag-david-hayward","tag-sozo"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6076","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6076"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6076\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7655,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6076\/revisions\/7655"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6076"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6076"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6076"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}