Pamatuji si, jak intenzivn\u00ed bylo, b\u00fdt zap\u00e1len\u00fd v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed? Pokro\u010dil jsem:<\/p>\n
1. U\u017e nejsem evangelista. M\u011bl jsem v sob\u011b hluboko zaryto, \u017ee mus\u00edm b\u00fdt neust\u00e1le p\u0159ipraven vydat sv\u011bdectv\u00ed o nad\u011bji, kter\u00e1 je ve mn\u011b, a obr\u00e1tit lidi. Sv\u011bt pro m\u011b byl misijn\u00edm polem, a lid\u00e9 byli objekty m\u00e9ho sna\u017een\u00ed! Byli m\u00fdm projektem. Vnit\u0159n\u00ed tlak apeluj\u00edc\u00ed na to, abych sd\u00edlel svou v\u00edru, byl ne\u00faprosn\u00fd. Te\u010f u\u017e m\u011bnit n\u00e1zor druh\u00fdch nemus\u00edm. Nemus\u00edm hr\u00e1t tu hru, a ani nikoho „p\u0159iv\u00e1d\u011bt.“ Tlak n\u011bkoho p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dit je pry\u010d, a j\u00e1 mohu tr\u00e1vit \u010das s t\u011bmi, kte\u0159\u00ed mi jsou bl\u00edzc\u00ed, a se kter\u00fdmi si rozum\u00edm.<\/p>\n
2. M\u00e9 my\u0161lenky jsou op\u011bt m\u00e9. Mysl\u00edm za sebe. U\u017e nejsem ob\u011bt\u00ed, kdy m\u00e1 mysl byla kontrolov\u00e1na. Bez ohledu na to, co si o m\u011b lid\u00e9 mysl\u00ed, z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1m s\u00e1m sebou. Jsem dosp\u011bl\u00fd a nikoho nenech\u00e1m, aby mi podsouval sv\u00e9 my\u0161lenky, nebo ovl\u00e1dal ty m\u00e9. Pokud tr\u00e1v\u00edm \u010das s lidmi, kte\u0159\u00ed zast\u00e1vaj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 n\u00e1zory, z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1m ve sv\u00fdch n\u00e1zorech nez\u00e1visl\u00fd. Nemus\u00edm v\u011b\u0159it tomu, \u010demu v\u011b\u0159\u00ed oni a oni nemus\u00ed v\u011b\u0159it tomu, \u010demu v\u011b\u0159\u00edm j\u00e1. M\u00e9 n\u00e1zory jsou m\u00e9 a m\u00e1m pr\u00e1vo je m\u00edt, tak jako i oni maj\u00ed pr\u00e1vo m\u00edt ty sv\u00e9.<\/p>\n
3. J\u00e1 rozhoduji, jak a jestli budu komunikovat s ostatn\u00edmi. U\u017e v\u00edm, \u017ee nemus\u00edm druh\u00e9 lidi, skrze vytv\u00e1\u0159en\u00ed a n\u00e1sledn\u00e9 vyu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed, dost\u00e1vat na stranu m\u00e9 v\u00edry. U\u017e s nimi nemus\u00edm souhlasit, nebo s nimi diskutovat, sjednocovat se nebo je korigovat. J\u00e1 si vyb\u00edr\u00e1m, jak se zachov\u00e1m. Mohu se s nimi zapojit do hovoru, ale tak\u00e9 nemus\u00edm, proto\u017ee nejsem nucen, ani vnit\u0159n\u011b tla\u010den ke shod\u011b \u010di pot\u0159eb\u011b argumentace. A tak, jak mohu do konverzace vstoupit, tak z n\u00ed mohu i odej\u00edt. I kdy\u017e si budou myslet, \u017ee jsem hrub\u00fd \u010di nep\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd, py\u0161n\u00fd \u010di bezcitn\u00fd. Je na mn\u011b, zda se zapoj\u00edm nebo ne. Proto\u017ee v\u00edm, \u017ee u\u017e nikoho nemus\u00edm m\u011bnit. M\u00e1m kontrolu nad t\u00edm, co si mysl\u00edm a rozhoduji, kdy se v rozhovorech s ostatn\u00edmi budu anga\u017eovat.<\/p>\n
Jedn\u00edm z p\u0159\u00edznak\u016f dekonstrukce je, \u017ee jsem ztratil pot\u0159ebu druh\u00e9 p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010dovat a obracet je.<\/p>\n
\u017diji a nech\u00e1v\u00e1m \u017e\u00edt.<\/p>\n
Upraveno z \u010dl\u00e1nku Davida Haywarda<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Pamatuji si, jak intenzivn\u00ed bylo, b\u00fdt zap\u00e1len\u00fd v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed? Pokro\u010dil jsem: 1. U\u017e nejsem evangelista. M\u011bl jsem v sob\u011b hluboko zaryto, \u017ee mus\u00edm b\u00fdt neust\u00e1le p\u0159ipraven vydat sv\u011bdectv\u00ed o nad\u011bji, kter\u00e1 je ve mn\u011b, a obr\u00e1tit lidi. Sv\u011bt pro m\u011b byl misijn\u00edm polem, a lid\u00e9 byli objekty m\u00e9ho sna\u017een\u00ed! Byli m\u00fdm […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[76],"class_list":["post-6961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-clanky","tag-david-hayward"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6961"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6961\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8957,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6961\/revisions\/8957"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}