{"id":6986,"date":"2020-05-13T17:40:33","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:40:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6986"},"modified":"2021-01-27T11:26:21","modified_gmt":"2021-01-27T10:26:21","slug":"mentalita-kultu-1-20","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6986","title":{"rendered":"Mu\u017e za oponou \u2013 pro\u010d zde zve\u0159ej\u0148ujeme tuto s\u00e9rii \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016f"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se souhlasem editor\u016f <a href=\"https:\/\/novyzivot.design.blog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">blogu o Nov\u00e9m \u017divot\u011b<\/a> jsme se rozhodli publikovat s\u00e9rii \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016f o fale\u0161n\u00fdch spasitel\u00edch, extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch skupin\u00e1ch, uzav\u0159en\u00fdch komunit\u00e1ch, kultech, a s jejich existenc\u00ed spojen\u00e9m <a href=\"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6474\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gaslightingu<\/a>, jednou z mnoha forem psychick\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed, kter\u00e9ho se tyto skupiny dopou\u0161t\u00ed nejen na sv\u00fdch \u010dlenech.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<header class=\"entry-header\">\n<p class=\"entry-title\">Mu\u017e za oponou \u2013 pro\u010d zde zve\u0159ej\u0148ujeme tuto s\u00e9rii \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016f<\/p>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"entry-content\">\n<p>N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed k\u0159es\u0165an\u00e9 t\u00edhnou k\u00a0tomu, m\u00edt v\u017edy jen spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 odpov\u011bdi. Zpravidla jsou neradi, kdy\u017e v\u011bci v\u00a0c\u00edrkvi jsou hodnoceny v\u011bcn\u011b a pragmaticky. P\u0159\u00edli\u0161 nezohled\u0148uj\u00ed n\u00e1zory lid\u00ed \u201ez venku\u201c o d\u011bn\u00ed v\u00a0c\u00edrkvi, proto\u017ee tomu ti lid\u00e9 p\u0159eci nemohou rozum\u011bt \u2013 hodnocen\u00ed m\u00e1 b\u00fdt p\u0159eci duchovn\u00ed, dle P\u00edsma. Pod vlivem n\u011bkter\u00fdch c\u00edrkv\u00ed a jejich veden\u00ed lid\u00e9 snadno nab\u00fdvaj\u00ed dojmu, \u017ee v\u0161ichni ostatn\u00ed jsou n\u011bjac\u00ed vy\u0161inut\u00ed, \u017ee se\u0161li z\u00a0cesty. Ti\u0161e si \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed \u201eK\u00e9\u017e by mohli vid\u011bt, jak\u00fd \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd \u017eivot zde m\u00e1me. Kdyby jen vid\u011bli, jak se zde o n\u00e1s staraj\u00ed. Jak m\u00e1me jasn\u00e9 a pevn\u00e9 veden\u00ed. Ale oni jsou rad\u0161i sv\u00e9voln\u00ed bl\u00e1zni a sv\u00fdm \u017eivotem se pot\u00e1c\u00ed ve v\u011btru sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch tu\u017eeb a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00ed.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Tito k\u0159es\u0165an\u00e9 tomuto extern\u00edmu hodnocen\u00ed nev\u011bnuj\u00ed pot\u0159ebnou pozornost, jeliko\u017e n\u00e1zor \u201ez venku\u201c, zd\u00e1 se, nen\u00ed podpo\u0159en \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fdm pevn\u00fdm hodnotov\u00fdm syst\u00e9mem a jev\u00ed se jako relativn\u00ed. Sv\u016fj vlastn\u00ed n\u00e1zor naopak pova\u017euj\u00ed za spolehliv\u00fd, jeliko\u017e je jasn\u011b stanoven jejich v\u00edrou \u2013 je podpo\u0159en Bohem a tud\u00ed\u017e relevantn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed. Kdy\u017e se n\u011bkdo \u201ez venku\u201c sna\u017e\u00ed pouk\u00e1zat na pochybn\u00e9 praktiky veden\u00ed, v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bk rad\u011bji ut\u00edk\u00e1, ne\u017e aby m\u011bl pochybnosti, nebo se c\u00edt\u00ed povinov\u00e1n bojovat a sv\u00e9 vedouc\u00ed h\u00e1jit. N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00ed se dokonce sami c\u00edt\u00ed existen\u010dn\u011b ohro\u017eeni, kdy\u017e je jejich k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fd vzor napad\u00e1n. V\u011bt\u0161inou se sna\u017e\u00ed p\u0159ij\u00edt na to, pro\u010d ten \u010dlov\u011bk \u201ez venku\u201c je tolik mimo a nevid\u00ed to, co oni. \u201eNejsp\u00ed\u0161 nerozum\u00ed k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9mu syst\u00e9mu autority. Nev\u00ed co to je \u017eivot v\u00a0jednot\u011b. Asi nen\u00ed zvykl\u00fd, \u017ee by k\u00a0n\u011bmu n\u011bkdo mohl b\u00fdt takto dobr\u00fd! Asi se nechce prom\u011b\u0148ovat. Nechce si p\u0159ipustit, \u017ee n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jsou duchovn\u011b vysp\u011blej\u0161\u00ed ne\u017e on a nechce je n\u00e1sledovat. Nechce p\u0159ipustit, aby \u017eelezo ost\u0159ilo \u017eelezo, proto\u017ee by nejd\u0159\u00edv musel p\u0159ipustit, \u017ee je s\u00e1m tolik tup\u00fd.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>\u010clov\u011bk, kter\u00fd nev\u011bnuje dostate\u010dnou pozornost vn\u011bj\u0161\u00edmu hodnocen\u00ed, b\u00fdv\u00e1 pln\u011b odk\u00e1z\u00e1n na hodnocen\u00ed intern\u00ed. Pr\u00e1v\u011b tato z\u00e1vislost na intern\u00edch hodnocen\u00edch sv\u00fdch vedouc\u00edch, p\u0159itom b\u00fdv\u00e1 jedn\u00edm z\u00a0nej\u010dast\u011bj\u0161\u00edch d\u016fvod\u016f kritiky uzav\u0159en\u00fdch spole\u010denstv\u00ed. Lid\u00e9 \u201ez venku\u201c nech\u00e1pou proklamovanou jednotu jako pozitivum, ale pr\u00e1v\u011b naopak jako rizikov\u00fd nedostatek opozice, kdy m\u016f\u017ee snadno doch\u00e1zet k manipulaci a r\u016fzn\u00fdm form\u00e1m psychick\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Snadno se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t, \u017ee na v\u011b\u0159\u00edc\u00edho skupina vytv\u00e1\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1tlak slovy: \u201eodd\u011bl se, odd\u011bl se, bu\u010f jin\u00fd, bu\u010f svat\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, bu\u010f lep\u0161\u00ed, zap\u0159i s\u00e1m sebe, nebu\u010f t\u011blesn\u00fd, zabij svou p\u0159irozenost, nes sv\u016fj k\u0159\u00ed\u017e!\u201c Ale jak lze poznat, co je vlastn\u011b zdrav\u00e9? Kde je hranice mezi dobr\u00fdm vzorem, motivac\u00ed a n\u00e1tlakem a manipulac\u00ed? Jak invazivn\u00ed m\u00e1 b\u00fdt spole\u010denstv\u00ed? Jak moc m\u00e1 ct\u00edt soukrom\u00ed a identitu jednotlivce?<\/p>\n<p>Pr\u00e1v\u011b z\u00a0tohoto d\u016fvodu jsme se rozhodli zde zve\u0159ejnit s\u00e9rii \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016f z\u00a0knihy americk\u00e9 autorky Ph.D Stephanie Sarkis:\u00a0<em>How to recognise manipulative and emotionally abusive people\u2026and break free<\/em>, co\u017e lze do \u010de\u0161tiny p\u0159elo\u017eit: \u201e<em>Jak poznat manipulaci a psychick\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed\u2026 a z\u00edskat svobodu<\/em>.\u201c C\u00edlem nen\u00ed nikoho napadnout nebo po\u0161pinit jm\u00e9no n\u011bjak\u00e9 organizace. L\u00edb\u00ed se n\u00e1m, \u017ee \u010dl\u00e1nek je naprosto neutr\u00e1ln\u00ed \u2013 nenapad\u00e1 \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed hodnotov\u00fd syst\u00e9m nebo n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed, ale naopak se sna\u017e\u00ed podat p\u0159edstavu o extr\u00e9mech a varovat, kam a\u017e v\u011bci mohou doj\u00edt, kdy\u017e se jim d\u00e1 voln\u00fd pr\u016fchod. \u010clov\u011bk si m\u016f\u017ee uv\u011bdomit, \u017ee o\u0161emetn\u00e9 slovo kult, nemus\u00ed b\u00fdt tak vzd\u00e1len\u00e9 tomu, co vid\u00ed kolem sebe a \u017ee je pot\u0159eba si stanovit n\u011bjak\u00e9 hranice, aby ho n\u011bkdo nezneu\u017eil. D\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat je jedna v\u011bc, ale v\u011bd\u011bt, kdy ut\u00e9ct, druh\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>\u010cl\u00e1nek zve\u0159ej\u0148ujeme, aby lid\u00e9 p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161leli. P\u0159\u00e1li bychom si, aby lid\u00e9 z\u00a0uzav\u0159en\u00fdch komunit na chv\u00edli vypnuli sv\u00e9\u00a0nau\u010den\u00e9 obrann\u00e9 mechanismy a hodnotili v\u011bci \u201et\u011blesn\u011b\u201c pouze podle toho, jak vypadaj\u00ed. Chceme, aby si pokl\u00e1dali ot\u00e1zky typu: \u201eJsem opravdu na bezpe\u010dn\u00e9m m\u00edst\u011b? Je to v\u00a0po\u0159\u00e1dku? Ve\u0161el bych sem dnes, kdybych v\u00a0t\u00e9to m\u00edstnosti na nikoho nem\u011bl \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 soci\u00e1ln\u00ed vazby? Nejsem nezdrav\u011b p\u0159ipout\u00e1n? Nen\u00ed m\u00e1 z\u00e1vislost na tomto spole\u010denstv\u00ed nezdrav\u00e1? Co se se mnou d\u011bje? Pro\u010d jsem pod takov\u00fdm tlakem? Je to kv\u016fli mn\u011b, nebo to d\u011bl\u00e1 se mnou ten p\u00e1n za kazatelnou? Jsou jeho motivace opravdu dobr\u00e9? Mysl\u00ed skute\u010dn\u011b na m\u011b, nebo pln\u00ed n\u011bjakou svou agendu?<\/p>\n<p>D\u00e1le citovan\u00e9 odstavce jsou ze 7. kapitoly, kter\u00e1 v\u00a0angli\u010dtin\u011b nese p\u0159\u00edzna\u010dn\u00fd nadpis: \u201eBeware the man behind the curtain\u201c v\u00a0\u010de\u0161tin\u011b tedy \u201eDej si pozor na mu\u017ee za oponou\u201c. Dej si tedy pozor, abys kv\u016fli mu\u017ei za oponou neza\u010dal dobrovoln\u011b upou\u0161t\u011bt od sv\u00fdch idej\u00ed, pl\u00e1n\u016f, charakteru, rodinn\u00fdch a jin\u00fdch d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fdch vazeb, kter\u00e9 ti zprost\u0159edkov\u00e1vaj\u00ed vn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed hodnocen\u00ed. Dej si pozor, aby ve snaze se pon\u00ed\u017eit a n\u00e9st sv\u016fj k\u0159\u00ed\u017e ses nestal loutkou odk\u00e1zanou na mu\u017ee za oponou.<\/p>\n<p>Zdroj: <a href=\"https:\/\/novyzivot.design.blog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">blog o Nov\u00e9m \u017divot\u011b<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Se souhlasem editor\u016f blogu o Nov\u00e9m \u017divot\u011b jsme se rozhodli publikovat s\u00e9rii \u010dl\u00e1nk\u016f o fale\u0161n\u00fdch spasitel\u00edch, extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch skupin\u00e1ch, uzav\u0159en\u00fdch komunit\u00e1ch, kultech, a s jejich existenc\u00ed spojen\u00e9m gaslightingu, jednou z mnoha forem psychick\u00e9ho n\u00e1sil\u00ed, kter\u00e9ho se tyto skupiny dopou\u0161t\u00ed nejen na sv\u00fdch \u010dlenech. 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