{"id":7013,"date":"2020-05-13T17:54:50","date_gmt":"2020-05-13T15:54:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=7013"},"modified":"2021-01-27T11:26:21","modified_gmt":"2021-01-27T10:26:21","slug":"muz-za-oponou-uvod-autora-knihy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=7013","title":{"rendered":"Mu\u017e za oponou \u2013 \u00favod autora\u00a0knihy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I kdy\u017e si mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee kulty jsou anom\u00e1li\u00ed a tato kapitola pro tebe nebude p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e1, stejn\u011b ti doporu\u010duji si ji p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst. Jak\u00e1koliv osoba nebo organizace m\u016f\u017ee projevovat znaky kultu a m\u016f\u017ee usilovat o to, aby t\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edvala a <a href=\"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6474\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gaslightovala<\/a>. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 zjistit, \u017ee zde nalezne\u0161 informace, kter\u00e9 se budou dot\u00fdkat tv\u00e9ho \u017eivota a zku\u0161enost\u00ed, i kdy\u017e se domn\u00edv\u00e1\u0161, \u017ee kulty pat\u0159\u00ed jen do zpr\u00e1v a p\u0159ehnan\u011b dramatizovan\u00fdch film\u016f. \u010c\u00edm d\u00e1l \u010dast\u011bji lze ov\u0161em sl\u00fdchat o r\u016fstu extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch hnut\u00ed, jejich\u017e hodnotovou z\u00e1kladnu tvo\u0159\u00ed n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed nebo jin\u00fd syst\u00e9m v\u00edry (nap\u0159\u00edklad b\u00edl\u00fd nacionalismus).<\/p>\n<p>Kdy\u017e se \u010dlov\u011bk pod\u00edv\u00e1 podrobn\u011bji na uzav\u0159en\u00e9 spolky, extr\u00e9mistick\u00e9 skupiny a kulty, zjist\u00ed, \u017ee zpozoruje v\u0161echny b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 rysy <a href=\"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=6474\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">gaslightingu<\/a> \u2013 sv\u016fdn\u00fd \u0161arm a p\u0159\u00edslib zabezpe\u010den\u00ed, pozvoln\u011b se utahuj\u00edc\u00ed \u0159emeny kontroly do stavu, kdy lid\u00e9 p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed o mo\u017enost sebeur\u010den\u00ed, odst\u0159ih\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed se od sv\u00fdch nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch, jsou zastra\u0161ov\u00e1ni p\u0159es t\u0159et\u00ed osoby a je jim vyhro\u017eov\u00e1no p\u0159i pokusu o odchod. Kulty a extr\u00e9mistick\u00e9 skupiny existuj\u00ed v\u00a0ka\u017ed\u00e9 zemi a kultu\u0159e. Nikdo nen\u00ed imunn\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>Kulty rozvrac\u00ed rodiny, zp\u016fsobuj\u00ed trval\u00e9 psychick\u00e9 \u00fajmy a vedou k\u00a0\u00famrt\u00ed sv\u00fdch \u010dlen\u016f i ne\u010dlen\u016f. Dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed rozlo\u017eit lidskou psychiku a nahradit ji p\u0159edepsan\u00fdmi hodnotami veden\u00ed. Kulty maj\u00ed dlouhodob\u00e9 dopady na lidsk\u00e9 emo\u010dn\u00ed a psychick\u00e9 zdrav\u00ed \u2013 dokonce i l\u00e9ta po tom, co z\u00a0nich \u010dlov\u011bk odejde.<\/p>\n<p>To je d\u016fvod, pro\u010d v\u011bnuji celou kapitolu t\u00e9to knihy tomu: jak rozpoznat kult \u010di extr\u00e9mistickou skupinu; jak se do nich nenechat zat\u00e1hnout; a jak se z\u00a0nich vymotat, jestli\u017ee ses do nich zapletl (a jak vysvobodit sv\u00e9 bl\u00edzk\u00e9). Podobn\u011b jako u p\u0159\u00edpad\u016f dom\u00e1c\u00edho n\u00e1sil\u00ed, kter\u00e9 byly pops\u00e1ny v\u00a0kapitole 5, ob\u011bti kult\u016f a extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch skupin se mohou dostat do za\u010darovan\u00e9ho kruhu zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00ed a p\u0159ipoutanosti, ze kter\u00e9ho je velmi obt\u00ed\u017en\u00e9 se vyprostit.<\/p>\n<p>N\u011bkter\u00e9 kulty a extr\u00e9mistick\u00e9 skupiny nejsou zdaleka tolik o hodnotov\u00e9m syst\u00e9mu \u010di n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed jako o tom, jak z\u00edskat nad lidmi kontrolu a jak je p\u0159ipravit o pen\u00edze a sebe\u00factu. Nezn\u00ed to podobn\u011b, jako jin\u00e9 formy gaslightingu? V\u00a0kultu a extr\u00e9mistick\u00e9 skupin\u011b, je nutn\u00e9 n\u00e1sledovat jednoho nebo n\u011bkolik vedouc\u00edch, jinak p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed n\u00e1sledky v\u00a0podob\u011b r\u016fzn\u00fdch postih\u016f \u2013 finan\u010dn\u00edch pokut, fyzick\u00fdch trest\u016f, nebo dokonce smrti. Jin\u00e9 extr\u00e9mistick\u00e9 skupiny, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad b\u00edl\u00ed nacionalist\u00e9, se soust\u0159ed\u00ed na konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed ideologii a u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed kameny gaslightingu (l\u017ei, p\u0159ekrucov\u00e1n\u00ed a r\u016fzn\u00e9 dal\u0161\u00ed techniky zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 v\u00a0p\u0159edchoz\u00ed kapitole) k\u00a0z\u00edsk\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed nov\u00fdch \u010dlen\u016f.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Druhy kult\u016f a extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch skupin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Existuj\u00ed r\u016fzn\u00e9 druhy kult\u016f a extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch skupin \u2013 politick\u00e9, n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 a n\u00e1silnick\u00e9. Politick\u00e9 kulty se soust\u0159ed\u00ed na politick\u00e9 d\u011bn\u00ed a ideologie \u2013 nap\u0159\u00edklad siln\u011b levicov\u00e9 nebo siln\u011b pravicov\u00e9 hodnoty. Sem by bylo mo\u017en\u00e9 za\u0159adit n\u011bkter\u00e9 sekt\u00e1\u0159sk\u00e9 politick\u00e9 organizace. N\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 kulty, jak ji\u017e s\u00e1m n\u00e1zev napov\u00edd\u00e1, jsou organizace deklaruj\u00edc\u00ed spiritu\u00e1ln\u00ed nebo n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 posl\u00e1n\u00ed. N\u011bkter\u00e9 od\u0161t\u011bpen\u00e9 c\u00edrkve lze kvalifikovat jako kulty \u2013 nap\u0159\u00edklad o Bo\u017esk\u00e9 br\u00e1n\u011b nebo Davidi\u00e1nech jste ji\u017e mohli sly\u0161et z\u00a0jin\u00fdch zdroj\u016f. N\u00e1silnick\u00e9 kulty nejsou tolik zn\u00e1m\u00e9, nap\u0159\u00edklad loupe\u017en\u00e9 gangy a teroristick\u00e9 skupiny (zde ozna\u010duji \u201eteroristick\u00e9\u201c takov\u00e9 skupiny, kter\u00e9 v r\u00e1mci \u0161\u00ed\u0159en\u00ed sv\u00e9 agendy u\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed n\u00e1sil\u00ed a zastra\u0161ov\u00e1n\u00ed).<\/p>\n<p>Tato kapitola je v\u011bnov\u00e1na p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00fdm a n\u00e1silnick\u00fdm kult\u016fm, jeliko\u017e ty jsou obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 nebezpe\u010dn\u00e9. Zp\u016fsobily, p\u016fsob\u00ed a nad\u00e1le budou p\u016fsobit rozli\u010dn\u00e9 du\u0161evn\u00ed a t\u011blesn\u00e9 \u00fajmy a to nejen sv\u00fdm \u010dlen\u016fm, ale i jejich rodin\u00e1m a spole\u010dnosti.<\/p>\n<p>Lid\u00e9 se m\u011b \u010dasto ptaj\u00ed, jak pozn\u00e1m rozd\u00edl mezi kultem a zdrav\u00fdm, by\u0165 nekonformn\u00edm syst\u00e9mem v\u00edry. Poj\u010fme je tedy srovnat.<\/p>\n<p>Pro kulty, extr\u00e9mistick\u00e9 skupiny a uzav\u0159en\u00e9 komunity je typick\u00e9 toto nezdrav\u00e9 chov\u00e1n\u00ed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Jsi \u201euv\u011bzn\u011bn\u00fd.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Nem\u016f\u017ee\u0161 o sob\u011b rozhodovat.<\/li>\n<li>Nem\u011bl bys vzn\u00e1\u0161et dotazy, nebo zpochyb\u0148ovat autoritu veden\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Je ti \u0159e\u010deno, \u017ee skupina je nad\u0159azena ostatn\u00edm skupin\u00e1m a lidem.<\/li>\n<li>\u0158\u00edkaj\u00ed ti, \u017ee dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed l\u00e9pe vychov\u00e1vat tv\u00e9 d\u011bti ne\u017e ty.<\/li>\n<li>Napadaj\u00ed a podr\u00fdvaj\u00ed tv\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 vazby, zvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b vztah mezi rodi\u010dem a d\u00edt\u011btem.<\/li>\n<li>Odeb\u00edraj\u00ed ti d\u011bti, aby je vychov\u00e1vali jin\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 skupiny a pr\u00fd tak \u010din\u00ed v\u00a0nejlep\u0161\u00edm z\u00e1jmu tv\u00e9ho d\u00edt\u011bte.<\/li>\n<li>Tv\u00e9 d\u011bti mus\u00ed chodit do n\u011bjak\u00e9 konkr\u00e9tn\u00ed \u0161koly.<\/li>\n<li>Sta\u0159\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 vstupuj\u00ed do s\u0148atku s\u00a0d\u011btmi kultu.<\/li>\n<li>Tv\u016fj \u017eivotn\u00ed partner (man\u017eel\/man\u017eelka) ti byl skupinou p\u0159i\u0159azen.<\/li>\n<li>Pen\u00edze zpravidla putuj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edmo vedouc\u00edm, aby mohli \u017e\u00edt v\u00a0blahobytu, kde\u017eto \u0159adov\u00ed \u010dlenov\u00e9 \u017eij\u00ed v\u00a0relativn\u00ed chudob\u011b.<\/li>\n<li>Nen\u00ed transparentn\u011b vedeno \u00fa\u010detnictv\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Jsi donucen odevzd\u00e1vat velk\u00e9 nebo pravideln\u00e9 finan\u010dn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edsp\u011bvky.<\/li>\n<li>\u0158\u00edkaj\u00ed ti, \u017ee jim m\u00e1\u0161 po sv\u00e9 smrti odk\u00e1zat v\u0161echny \u00faspory.<\/li>\n<li>\u0158\u00edkaj\u00ed ti, a\u0165 se vzd\u00e1\u0161 v\u0161eho sv\u00e9ho majetku, m\u016f\u017ee\u0161 b\u00fdt povzbuzov\u00e1n darovat v\u0161e skupin\u011b.<\/li>\n<li>Vedou podnik\u00e1n\u00ed pod jin\u00fdmi jm\u00e9ny a spojitosti utajuj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Od\u0161t\u011bpili se od legitimn\u00edho n\u00e1bo\u017eenstv\u00ed kv\u016fli sv\u00fdm extr\u00e9mn\u00edm postoj\u016fm.<\/li>\n<li>V\u011bda je pova\u017eovan\u00e1 za \u0161patnou.<\/li>\n<li>Maj\u00ed seznam p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fdch pravidel nebo \u201ez\u00e1kon\u016f.\u201c<\/li>\n<li>Jsou p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e1 pravidla na obl\u00e9k\u00e1n\u00ed, nebo povinn\u00e1 uniforma.<\/li>\n<li>N\u011bkter\u00e9 zp\u016fsoby p\u0159ij\u00edm\u00e1n\u00ed potravy, sp\u00e1nku, nebo chov\u00e1n\u00ed jsou zapov\u011bzeny, jeliko\u017e odporuj\u00ed spole\u010dn\u00e9 norm\u011b.<\/li>\n<li>Je u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n specifick\u00fd slovn\u00edk, kter\u00fd nen\u00ed u\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n nikde mimo skupinu a jej\u00ed \u010dleny.<\/li>\n<li>Mus\u00ed\u0161 se odd\u011blit od ostatn\u00edch proto, aby si t\u011b dok\u00e1zali udr\u017eet, a abys nevyzrazoval informace t\u011bm \u201evenku\u201c.<\/li>\n<li>Lidem, kte\u0159\u00ed nejsou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed skupiny, jsou d\u00e1v\u00e1ny pejorativn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edvlastky.<\/li>\n<li>Je pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1no t\u011blesn\u00e9 a psychick\u00e9 n\u00e1sil\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Vedouc\u00ed sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed zneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed \u0159adov\u00e9 \u010dleny.<\/li>\n<li>Je o\u010dek\u00e1v\u00e1no, \u017ee spolu se skupinou nebo ve jm\u00e9nu skupiny se dopust\u00ed\u0161 trestn\u00e9ho \u010dinu.<\/li>\n<li>Jsi zrazov\u00e1n od psychologick\u00e9 l\u00e9\u010dby.<\/li>\n<li>Jsi sledov\u00e1n nebo doprov\u00e1zen p\u0159i odchodu z ur\u010den\u00e9 budovy.<\/li>\n<li>Na dobrou \u017eivotn\u00ed p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost (nap\u0159\u00edklad na novou pr\u00e1ci) je nahl\u00ed\u017eeno jako na riziko.<\/li>\n<li>Kdy\u017e odejde\u0161, je tv\u00e9 rodin\u011b zapov\u00edd\u00e1no se s tebou st\u00fdkat.<\/li>\n<li>Kdy\u017e odejde\u0161, tak t\u011b \u0161pehuj\u00ed a obt\u011b\u017euj\u00ed.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Je patrn\u00e9, \u017ee mnoh\u00e9 ze zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9ho chov\u00e1n\u00ed je typick\u00e9 pr\u00e1v\u011b pro gaslightery. Vyzna\u010duje se n\u00e1tlakem a manipulac\u00ed druh\u00fdch, manipulac\u00ed pro vlastn\u00ed zisk, emo\u010dn\u00edm, psychick\u00fdm \u010di sexu\u00e1ln\u00edm zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1n\u00edm a p\u011bstounskou z\u00e1vislost\u00ed. Lze nal\u00e9zt jasn\u00e9 podobnosti s\u00a0gaslightingem prob\u00edhaj\u00edc\u00edm v\u00a0mezipartnersk\u00fdch vztaz\u00edch, o kter\u00e9m bylo ps\u00e1no v\u00a0Kapitole 5.<\/p>\n<p>Podrobme p\u0159edchoz\u00ed seznam srovn\u00e1n\u00ed se zdrav\u00fdmi komunitami, organizacemi \u010di syst\u00e9my v\u00edry. Ty se vyzna\u010duj\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Nejen, \u017ee ti je dovoleno pokl\u00e1dat ot\u00e1zky, ale je to podporov\u00e1no.<\/li>\n<li>M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 kdykoliv odej\u00edt.<\/li>\n<li>Tv\u00e9 d\u011bti z\u016fstanou u tebe.<\/li>\n<li>Pouto mezi rodi\u010di a d\u011btmi je respektov\u00e1no a podporov\u00e1no.<\/li>\n<li>Veden\u00ed podl\u00e9h\u00e1 n\u011bjak\u00e9mu kontroln\u00edmu org\u00e1nu. Je st\u0159e\u017eena vyv\u00e1\u017eenost pravomoc\u00ed.<\/li>\n<li>Ve v\u011brouce jsou srozumiteln\u00e1 pravidla.<\/li>\n<li>Nejsi vyb\u00edzen k tomu, abys poru\u0161oval z\u00e1kon.<\/li>\n<li>Zdrav\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 vztahy jsou podporov\u00e1ny.<\/li>\n<li>Jsou ti d\u00e1v\u00e1na vod\u00edtka, nikoliv v\u0161ak tresty.<\/li>\n<li>V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b depres\u00ed a \u00fazkost\u00ed jsi povzbuzen k hled\u00e1n\u00ed l\u00e9ka\u0159sk\u00e9 pomoci.<\/li>\n<li>\u00da\u010detnictv\u00ed je vedeno transparentn\u011b.<\/li>\n<li>Jestli\u017ee skupina provozuje \u0161kolu, nejsi pod tlakem, abys tam p\u0159ihl\u00e1sil sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Nebude\u0161 trest\u00e1n za to, kdy\u017e tak neu\u010din\u00ed\u0161.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>M\u011bjte na pam\u011bti, \u017ee jak\u00fdkoliv syst\u00e9m v\u00edry se m\u016f\u017ee st\u00e1t kultem a to zejm\u00e9na kdy\u017e: pravidla postupn\u011b p\u0159itvrzuj\u00ed a ztr\u00e1c\u00ed pru\u017enost; \u010dlenov\u00e9 za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed b\u00fdt trest\u00e1n\u00ed pro \u201eneposlu\u0161nost\u201c; je podporov\u00e1na optika \u201emy proti nim\u201c; ten, kdo zpochybn\u00ed vedouc\u00ed, mus\u00ed \u010delit n\u00e1sledk\u016fm.<\/p>\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator is-style-wide\" \/>\n<p><strong><em>ZDROJ:<br \/>\nGASLIGHTING: HOW TO RECOGNISE MANIPULATIVE AND EMOTIONALLY ABUSIVE PEOPLE \u2013 AND BREAK FREE<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n(<em>GASLIGHTING: JAK POZNAT MANIPULACI A PSYCHICK\u00c9 N\u00c1SIL\u00cd \u2013 A Z\u00cdSKAT SVOBODU)<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>7. kapitola: Dej si pozor na mu\u017ee za oponou \u2013 o fale\u0161n\u00fdch spasitel\u00edch, extr\u00e9mistick\u00fdch skupin\u00e1ch, uzav\u0159en\u00fdch komunit\u00e1ch, kultech a gaslightingu.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0Autor: Ph.D. Stephanie Sarkis<br \/>\nVyd\u00e1n\u00ed: Orionbooks, 2019<br \/>\nP\u0159eklad: Svobodn\u00ed edito\u0159i blogu, 2020<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Zdroj: <a href=\"https:\/\/novyzivot.design.blog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">blog o Nov\u00e9m \u017divot\u011b<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I kdy\u017e si mysl\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee kulty jsou anom\u00e1li\u00ed a tato kapitola pro tebe nebude p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e1, stejn\u011b ti doporu\u010duji si ji p\u0159e\u010d\u00edst. Jak\u00e1koliv osoba nebo organizace m\u016f\u017ee projevovat znaky kultu a m\u016f\u017ee usilovat o to, aby t\u011b zneu\u017e\u00edvala a gaslightovala. M\u016f\u017ee\u0161 zjistit, \u017ee zde nalezne\u0161 informace, kter\u00e9 se budou dot\u00fdkat tv\u00e9ho [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[134],"tags":[135],"class_list":["post-7013","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gaslighting","tag-stephanie-sarkis"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7013","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7013"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7013\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7020,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7013\/revisions\/7020"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7013"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7013"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7013"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}