V\u00fdzkum ukazuje, \u017ee prvn\u00ed zn\u00e1mkou ne\u00fasp\u011bchu v man\u017eelstv\u00ed je nedostate\u010dn\u00fd respekt a \u00facta mezi ob\u011bma stranami. Nerespektov\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00e9ho je prvn\u00ed \u017elutou kartou, kter\u00e1 ukazuje, \u017ee konec m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt na dohled. \u017de vztah m\u016f\u017ee skon\u010dit. Vid\u011bl jsem to znovu a znovu b\u011bhem sv\u00e9 mnohalet\u00e9 poradensk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de. Pokud zaznamen\u00e1m nedostatek respektu mezi man\u017eelkou a man\u017eelem, pak v\u00edm, \u017ee vztah je ve v\u00e1\u017en\u00fdch pot\u00ed\u017e\u00edch. Zvl\u00e1\u0161tn\u00ed v\u0161ak je, \u017ee to nemus\u00ed ani jeden vid\u011bt.<\/p>\n
\u0158ekn\u011bme nap\u0159\u00edklad, \u017ee man\u017eel nerespektuje man\u017eelku. N\u011bkter\u00e9 \u017eeny za t\u00edm v\u0161ak nevid\u00ed nic \u0161patn\u00e9ho nebo neobvykl\u00e9ho. Pova\u017euj\u00ed tuto man\u017eelovu ne\u00factu za spravedliv\u00fd \u017eivot, za norm\u00e1ln\u00ed, typick\u00fd nebo zaslou\u017een\u00fd stav. Kdy\u017e pak \u017een\u011b \u0159eknu, \u017ee si zaslou\u017e\u00ed plnou \u00factu, a \u017ee by m\u011bla b\u00fdt respektov\u00e1na tak\u00e9 jej\u00ed d\u016fstojnost, n\u011bkter\u00e9 jsou z toho skute\u010dn\u011b zd\u011b\u0161eny. Semeno sebene\u00facty ji\u017e bylo zaseto. Pokud se tedy man\u017eel k \u00fact\u011b v\u016f\u010di sv\u00e9 man\u017eelce nevr\u00e1t\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee se man\u017eelstv\u00ed rozpadnout. M\u00e1m v\u00e1\u017enou radu pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed jsou podobnou ne\u00factou zneu\u017e\u00edv\u00e1ni nebo ovl\u00e1d\u00e1ni. A\u0165 u\u017e se to d\u011bje v man\u017eelstv\u00ed nebo dokonce i v c\u00edrkvi, odejdi!<\/p>\n
Jist\u011b, i v nezdrav\u00e9m vztahu je mo\u017en\u00e9 naj\u00edt kladn\u00e9 vlastnosti, ty jsou v\u0161ak negativn\u011b vyv\u00e1\u017eeny. Toxicita \u0161patn\u00e9ho vztahu je v\u017edy siln\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a p\u016fsobiv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed silou, a v\u017edy nad t\u011bmi kladn\u00fdmi vlastnostmi p\u0159evl\u00e1d\u00e1. Pokud tedy nedojde k z\u00e1zra\u010dn\u00e9 prom\u011bn\u011b, vztah se m\u011bn\u00ed v poni\u017euj\u00edc\u00ed a dominantn\u00ed. A bohu\u017eel, jak jsem mohl pozorovat, takov\u00e9 prom\u011bny jsou pom\u011brn\u011b vz\u00e1cn\u00e9. Ale je to jen m\u00e1 zku\u0161enost. Je t\u0159eba o tom mluvit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
V\u00fdzkum ukazuje, \u017ee prvn\u00ed zn\u00e1mkou ne\u00fasp\u011bchu v man\u017eelstv\u00ed je nedostate\u010dn\u00fd respekt a \u00facta mezi ob\u011bma stranami. Nerespektov\u00e1n\u00ed druh\u00e9ho je prvn\u00ed \u017elutou kartou, kter\u00e1 ukazuje, \u017ee konec m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt na dohled. \u017de vztah m\u016f\u017ee skon\u010dit. Vid\u011bl jsem to znovu a znovu b\u011bhem sv\u00e9 mnohalet\u00e9 poradensk\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de. Pokud zaznamen\u00e1m nedostatek respektu mezi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[109,112,134],"tags":[76],"class_list":["post-7401","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cirkev","category-nabozenstvi","category-gaslighting","tag-david-hayward"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7401","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7401"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7401\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7402,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7401\/revisions\/7402"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7401"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}