{"id":7924,"date":"2023-02-02T20:01:05","date_gmt":"2023-02-02T19:01:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=7924"},"modified":"2023-02-02T20:41:22","modified_gmt":"2023-02-02T19:41:22","slug":"7-duvodu-proc-je-tak-desive-zpochybnovat-krestanske-vedouci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sozo.cz\/?p=7924","title":{"rendered":"7 d\u016fvod\u016f, pro\u010d je tak d\u011bsiv\u00e9 zpochyb\u0148ovat k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 vedouc\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">M\u016fj p\u0159\u00edtel Joathan Hollingsworth se svou matkou Amy napsali knihu o vlastn\u00edch zku\u0161enostech s destruktivn\u00edm p\u016fsoben\u00edm n\u011bkter\u00fdch k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch spole\u010dnost\u00ed a jejich vedouc\u00edch. N\u00ed\u017ee p\u0159ikl\u00e1d\u00e1m svou recenzi k t\u00e9to knize (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/gp\/product\/0718031237\/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=390957&amp;creativeASIN=0718031237&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=nakedpastor-20&amp;linkId=NRP5XSVLH2FE3FI3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Runaway Radical: A Young Man&#8217;s Reckless Journey to Save the World<\/a>):<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh tohoto mlad\u00e9ho mu\u017ee m\u011b naprosto uchv\u00e1til. Vid\u011bl jsem v n\u011bm mnoho z toho sv\u00e9ho. Jonathan spolu se svou matkou Amy popisuje neskute\u010dn\u00fd stres, kter\u00e9mu vystavujeme na\u0161e d\u011bti, kdy\u017e chceme, aby byly \u00fa\u017easn\u00fdm superhrdiny, p\u0159esto\u017ee mnohem lep\u0161\u00ed by bylo, aby prost\u011b byly lidmi. V Jonathanov\u011b p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b \u0161lo o n\u00e1tlak, aby byl za ka\u017edou cenu radik\u00e1ln\u00edm n\u00e1sledovn\u00edkem Krista a sebeob\u011btuj\u00edc\u00edm se slu\u017eebn\u00edkem c\u00edrkve. Jak tvrd\u00ed s\u00e1m Jonathan, kdy\u017e je duchovn\u00ed r\u016fst posuzov\u00e1n pouze t\u00edm, jak v\u00e1\u017en\u011b to \u010dlov\u011bk bere, tak je pro tebe automaticky jedin\u00fdm povolen\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem j\u00edt do toho po hlav\u011b a naplno. Zpochyb\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edho syst\u00e9mu v\u00edry je ji\u017e samo o sob\u011b selh\u00e1n\u00edm a druz\u00ed t\u011b tedy logicky p\u0159esv\u011bd\u010duj\u00ed, \u017ee \u0159e\u0161en\u00edm je je\u0161t\u011b opravdov\u011bji a urputn\u011bji se pono\u0159it do tv\u00e9 sou\u010dasn\u00e9 v\u00edry \u2013 b\u00fdt horliv\u011bj\u0161\u00ed, ne\u017e kdykoliv p\u0159ed t\u00edm a pak to bude fungovat. Tato kniha popisuje dojemn\u00fd a siln\u00fd vhled na r\u016fzn\u00e9 tlaky, jim\u017e jsou mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 vystavov\u00e1ni, kdy\u017e maj\u00ed ob\u011btovat vlastn\u00ed \u017eivoty pro ide\u00e1ly, kter\u00e9 nejsou v\u017edy ide\u00e1ln\u00ed.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159esto\u017ee je mlad\u00fd, p\u0159\u00edmo se stav\u00ed proti t\u011bmto vedouc\u00edm a vysv\u011btluje zhoubnost jejich chov\u00e1n\u00ed na z\u00e1klad\u011b sv\u00fdch vlastn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed. Neust\u00e1le na n\u011bho mysl\u00edm, jeliko\u017e s\u00e1m v\u00edm, jak dlouhodob\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee takov\u00fd boj b\u00fdt. Zn\u00e1m to, s\u00e1m jsem to d\u011blal a proto s\u00e1m v\u00edm, jak\u00e9 to je. U\u017e jen pouh\u00e9 sd\u011blov\u00e1n\u00ed vlastn\u00edch zku\u0161enost\u00ed a poznatk\u016f o \u0161patn\u00fdch vedouc\u00edch je riskantn\u00ed a nebezpe\u010dnou \u010dinnost\u00ed. Zde uv\u00e1d\u00edm pro\u010d: (v\u0161echny za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed sssssss, proto\u017ee tak d\u011bl\u00e1 had)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\r\n<li>SMEAR \u2013 bude\u0161 o\u010dern\u011bn: Kdy\u017e kritizuje\u0161 n\u011bco, co ud\u011blali nebo \u0159ekli, zkritizuj\u00ed oni tebe. Ud\u011blaj\u00ed z tebe p\u0159\u00ed\u0161ern\u00e9ho \u010dlov\u011bka, po\u0161etilce, oportunistu, lh\u00e1\u0159e, spros\u0165\u00e1ka nebo cokoliv jin\u00e9ho, jen abys vypadal jako hlup\u00e1k bez rozezn\u00e1n\u00ed, nekompetentn\u00ed se do takov\u00e9to mise v\u016fbec pou\u0161t\u011bt.<\/li>\r\n<li>SPENT \u2013 zaplat\u00ed\u0161: Ud\u011blaj\u00ed n\u011bco, \u010d\u00edm t\u011b p\u0159im\u011bj\u00ed utr\u00e1cet anebo ztr\u00e1cet pen\u00edze. Soudn\u00ed spory, zadr\u017eov\u00e1n\u00ed pen\u011bz, placen\u00e1 pomoc, terapie, atd. Znaj\u00ed moc pen\u011bz v \u017eivot\u011b \u010dlov\u011bka a vysaj\u00ed t\u011b. V\u00ed toti\u017e, \u017ee kdy\u017e ti dojdou pen\u00edze, utichne i tv\u016fj hlas.<\/li>\r\n<li>SPIN \u2013 p\u0159ekrout\u00ed to: Celou z\u00e1le\u017eitost oto\u010d\u00ed proti tob\u011b, tak\u017ee ty bude\u0161 vypadat jako ten \u0161patn\u00fd a oni jako ob\u011b\u0165. Obklop\u00ed se sympatizanty, kte\u0159\u00ed je budou litovat, jako k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00e9 vedouc\u00ed pron\u00e1sledovan\u00e9 pro pravov\u011brnost a slu\u017ebu Bohu.<\/li>\r\n<li>SHAME \u2013 zostud\u00ed t\u011b: Budou tvrdit, \u017ee to jsi ty, kdo ubli\u017euje Nev\u011bst\u011b Kristov\u011b, a kdo je zdrojem n\u00e1kazy v T\u011ble. Budou tvrdit, \u017ee tv\u00fdm opravdov\u00fdm c\u00edlem je \u0161kodit c\u00edrkvi a ohrozit \u017eivoty druh\u00fdch. Budou se t\u011b sna\u017eit dostat do stavu, kdy za\u010dne\u0161 s\u00e1m o sob\u011b pochybovat. V\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00e1 tv\u00e1 pochybnost o sob\u011b sam\u00e9m je dal\u0161\u00ed trhlinou v tv\u00e9m brn\u011bn\u00ed.<\/li>\r\n<li>STICKY \u2013 neset\u0159ese\u0161 je. \u0160patn\u00ed vedouc\u00ed jsou jako hnusn\u00fd virus. Bude t\u011b st\u00e1t hodn\u011b \u00fasil\u00ed, pr\u00e1ce a \u010dasu, aby se zm\u011bnili nebo p\u0159estali. Nezbav\u00ed\u0161 se jich. Br\u00e1n\u00ed se standardn\u00edmu zach\u00e1zen\u00ed. Jsou ne\u00fastupn\u00ed. Bude\u0161 pot\u0159ebovat obrovskou d\u00e1vku vytrvalosti, abys vid\u011bl sebemen\u0161\u00ed zm\u011bnu. Velmi mi pomohl tento cit\u00e1t od Martina Luther Kinga: \u201dOblouk mor\u00e1ln\u00edho vesm\u00edru je dlouh\u00fd, ale oh\u00fdb\u00e1 se sm\u011brem ke spravedlnosti. Doufejme!\u201d<\/li>\r\n<li>SUPPORT \u2013 budou m\u00edt podporu: Kdo m\u00e1 moc m\u00edv\u00e1 i neomezenou podporu ve vztaz\u00edch i financ\u00edch, a tak m\u016f\u017ee bez probl\u00e9mu v\u00e9st dlouhodobou a intenzivn\u00ed kampa\u0148 proti v\u0161em tv\u00fdm snah\u00e1m pouk\u00e1zat na jejich \u0161patn\u00e9 jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Maj\u00ed spoustu kontakt\u016f na jin\u00e9 vlivn\u00e9 lidi. I kdy\u017e ty n\u011bjakou podporu z\u00edsk\u00e1\u0161, ve srovn\u00e1n\u00ed s t\u00edm, co maj\u00ed oni, je zanedbateln\u00e1. Nejde tedy jen o to m\u00edt dostatek odvahy, ale b\u00fdt vytrval\u00fd a nepolevit v tomto dobr\u00e9m boji.<\/li>\r\n<li>SILENCE \u2013 bude\u0161 uml\u010dov\u00e1n: Budou se t\u011b sna\u017eit za ka\u017edou cenu uml\u010det. Pou\u017eij\u00ed v\u0161echny zp\u016fsoby zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 v\u00fd\u0161e, abys u\u017e nav\u017edy ztichnul. Cht\u011bj\u00ed d\u00e1l pokra\u010dovat v tom, co d\u011blaj\u00ed, nepozorovan\u011b, neomezen\u011b, nedotknuteln\u011b. Jestli\u017ee se tv\u016fj hlas jak\u00fdmkoliv zp\u016fsobem st\u0159et\u00e1v\u00e1 s jejich osobou a kompromituje je, ud\u011blaj\u00ed cokoliv proto, aby ho uml\u010deli.<\/li>\r\n<\/ol>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00edm, \u017ee by toho bylo mo\u017en\u00e9 napsat vice, ale t\u011bchto sedm bod\u016f mi v tuto chv\u00edli p\u0159i\u0161lo nejp\u0159\u00edhodn\u011bj\u0161\u00edch. Mo\u017en\u00e1 si sami dok\u00e1\u017eete seznam doplnit.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">David Hayward<\/p>\r\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u016fj p\u0159\u00edtel Joathan Hollingsworth se svou matkou Amy napsali knihu o vlastn\u00edch zku\u0161enostech s destruktivn\u00edm p\u016fsoben\u00edm n\u011bkter\u00fdch k\u0159es\u0165ansk\u00fdch spole\u010dnost\u00ed a jejich vedouc\u00edch. N\u00ed\u017ee p\u0159ikl\u00e1d\u00e1m svou recenzi k t\u00e9to knize (Runaway Radical: A Young Man&#8217;s Reckless Journey to Save the World): P\u0159\u00edb\u011bh tohoto mlad\u00e9ho mu\u017ee m\u011b naprosto uchv\u00e1til. 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